I was offered an unbelievable amount—please hear me out!
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“I can only spare ¥50,000 a month, including hotel costs. I’m looking for someone who can meet at least twice a month.”
Doesn’t using a dating club seem like a terrible value if you’re trying to find a woman in her 20s who’ll agree to these terms? lol
When you said it was a huge amount, I imagined something much higher. So I was even more stunned when I read the rest.
You’re right—looking through a dating club would be pretty poor value for money. It sounds like you might not meet anyone no matter how many offers you make…
And if someone were truly amazing enough that you’d want to date them even without an allowance, they probably wouldn’t be using a dating club in the first place.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I remember an article in Weekly SPA! from about two years ago titled “The Era of the ¥50,000-a-Month Mistress.” If it were a single man around my age, maybe—but providing physical and emotional satisfaction to a married older man who isn’t even my type, just barely tolerable, for ¥50,000 a month is nowhere near worth the risk. What if you end up with a disease? Just scream that in your head and move on.
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Maezawa from Shacho-shitsu here.
¥50,000 for “at least” two meetings a month—and that includes the hotel costs?
There really are some strange people out there.
If this were an app, that’s an amount a woman might be willing to accept, so maybe someone who had only used apps came to a dating club with the same expectations.
Alternatively, a savvy woman might say, “Could I get a month’s allowance today?” Then, after going to a hotel once, she’d probably stop responding.
Even then, it works out to just over ¥40,000 for one meeting.
Oh, and if you try that at a dating club, the club will get angry with you, so be careful. It’s a trick you can only pull off on an app where nobody knows who you really are.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s right. To meet someone willing to accept those terms, you’d probably have to pay Universe a pretty hefty arrangement fee.
If the love hotel costs ¥8,000, are you planning to deduct that from ¥25,000 and hand her ¥17,000 as her allowance? Or are you going to ask her to pay the hotel bill herself?
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Sorry. To be honest, I also think those terms sound pretty good. So I can’t exactly agree and then make fun of that male member lol.
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