A girl I met through the club is apparently going to start living on her own soon.
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She says she wants to live somewhere with rent of around ¥100,000, and I’m planning to cover the rent and other expenses for her.
Besides the ¥100,000 rent, how much more should I give her to make her happy?
Also, how much do you all give your PJ partners who live on their own each month?
I’m Taro, one of the male members.
So this is a case of changing the terms of the arrangement, huh? lol
Covering her rent is basically a kind of monthly arrangement, isn’t it? If you’ve been meeting on a pay-per-meeting basis until now, combining the two sounds like a hassle, so why not switch everything to a monthly arrangement? Either way, I think the amount she’ll evaluate it by is probably the average total monthly allowance you’ve given her so far. If it’s more than that, she’ll likely be happy. At least, that’s how the economics work.
The other thing is what meaning you give this change. If she buys the idea that it’s because you care about her, for example, her satisfaction will go up even if it’s economically a loss for you. Generally speaking, I think the male side should be thinking about how to use that to reduce costs.
But anyway, it doesn’t seem like you can do this halfway, so why not give her as much as you can? The more it is, the more likely she’ll be happy. In the religious sense of those who have sharing with those who don’t, I’m sure even the Dalai Lama would approve.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
One of my papas (male supporters) also covers my rent, and he decided how much to send me separately for living expenses.
Since I don’t know how much support she was originally receiving, it’s hard to say for sure, but I think you should decide the amount for living expenses yourself.
Honestly, having the rent covered alone is already something to be grateful for, so it would be awkward if she complained about the amount for living expenses. And if the amount she asks for is too high, you may end up feeling uneasy and distrustful toward her.
So I think it’s best to offer support only within an amount you can comfortably afford.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, and I’ll answer as well.
I think you should discuss it with her and give her the amount she wants, but I don’t understand why you’re asking here instead of asking her directly.
Also, you were the one who brought up covering her rent, right? If so, rather than framing it as rent support, you could transfer or hand her ¥100,000 at the beginning of each month, and separately give her the amount she wants on a pay-per-meeting basis.
If she wants ¥100,000 each time you meet, then I suppose you’d give her ¥200,000 at the beginning of the month.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
I don’t think you need to cover her rent or anything like that.
I think it’s fine to go view places or look for one together, but personally, I’d prefer a girl who doesn’t expect me to pay her rent.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think she’ll be happier the more you give her, so instead of asking strangers here, just ask the woman directly.
The amount I give is 5 each time, multiplied by the number of meetings.
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