Has anyone ever tried to negotiate a higher allowance right before or after entering the room, even though you had agreed on the amount beforehand? We had also discussed what kind of hotel we would use, and nothing unusual was said or done while we were traveling. Looking back, I feel like that may have been their plan from the very beginning.
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If you’ve had an experience like this, could you tell me how you handled it?
I’m columnist Fuu.
As I’ve also written in my column, there was one time when, after I’d given her the allowance and we’d finished foreplay in bed, just as we were about to move on, she held out her hand and said:
“It’s an extra ¥10,000 if you want to go further.”
“Oh, and ¥20,000 extra if you want it without protection.”
I was like, “What?”—and completely lost interest. I couldn’t stay aroused, so I sent her home.
She did take the allowance I’d given her at the beginning.
She was probably someone with experience working for a delivery escort service. I’ve only heard this, so I’m not speaking from personal experience, but apparently at some delivery escort services, the service fee only covers oral sex, and some women charge extra for intimacy. I gave the club feedback right away.
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
Even a child understands that you should keep your promises.
I’ve been asked to raise the allowance a few times myself, but I firmly declined. As a result, everything was settled according to our original agreement.
If you act vague during negotiations, the other person may think there’s an opening to take advantage of. I think it’s important to give a clear, firm refusal. Even if that causes the negotiation to fall apart, a relationship with a woman who thinks that way would probably end sooner or later anyway, so I’d rather have it end while the damage is still minimal.
Perhaps she thought she was appealing to the man’s ulterior motives, but from the woman’s perspective, it’s a bit of a gamble—if she gets turned down, her allowance will drop significantly.
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I’m Nana Ayase, a female member.
You might think, “What? That’s not what we agreed on.”
But I think you should be grateful just for being offered the opportunity. So many people get the wrong idea—it’s surprising.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
So far, two women have asked me for “a little extra” before getting into bed.
I was already in the mood, and neither of them came across as pushy—they asked in a cute, almost playful way—so I immediately agreed to an extra 10,000 yen.
That said, with one of them, I had gotten a bit stingy during the negotiations and set the allowance at the initial amount, including transportation costs. So, really, she was just getting back what I’d taken off, and I can’t exactly talk.
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Aizawa from the CS Group here.
I’ve heard of this happening a few times before. I doubt many men would withhold the allowance at the last minute, so anyone who uses such a despicable tactic is truly lacking in character.
People like that are noted in our records, so I believe they’ll receive fewer and fewer offers.
Conversely, I’ve also heard several stories of women being told by men after they couldn’t perform following the negotiation—whether because of their age or alcohol—“This amount should be fine, right?”
That has nothing to do with the women, of course, and those men end up being flagged as having an extremely narrow-minded attitude.
Most of our members are wonderful, so it’s truly unfortunate that some thoughtless members make others feel uncomfortable and eventually leave the club.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I’ve never had an experience like that.
If something like that happened, I’d expect nothing but trouble, so I’d end things as quickly as possible.
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I’m in Seattle.
That’s never happened to me.
If someone said that, I’d probably smile and drink it right away once—but there probably wouldn’t be a second time.
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