What are the traits of men who aren’t good at their jobs and aren’t popular with women?
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Yesterday, when I arrived to meet a man I have a monthly arrangement with, he told me that today he wanted to skip dinner and just go to a hotel.
Normally, we do dinner → hotel, but apparently, because of the state of emergency, he can’t get a receipt issued or something.
I don’t really mind just going to a hotel, but I had chosen my outfit expecting to have dinner too. If there’s no dinner, it throws off my schedule afterward, so I wish he would have told me properly the day before.
He’s a black-tier club member, but he often gets the dates we’re meeting wrong, his car is dirty when he picks me up (the kind of dirty that clearly hasn’t been washed), and he often takes me to cheap restaurants (he simply doesn’t know any expensive ones). I get the impression that he has less money to spend on club activities than other men.
I almost feel like saying, “No wonder your income is low and you’re bad at your job.”
Ladies, I’m sure there are moments during your activities when you think, “This man probably isn’t very competent at work.” What kinds of situations make you feel that way?
I’m Tetsu, a male member.
If you think people who are good at their jobs are important and wealthy, you’ve got it wrong. People who are competent at work remain in the position of working for others indefinitely, so they never become truly important. Since they’re constantly made to work, they’re more like small-time wealthy people who never have any free time.
People who have more money and free time than they know what to do with are, in most cases, people who aren’t good at working. If you can’t do the work yourself, you simply have competent people do it for you.
You’re probably one of those people who’s good at work, aren’t you?
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer as well.
Even among people who are fairly wealthy, I think many don’t know any really good restaurants. It seems to come down to whether they’ve been willing to spend money on dining and whether they’ve had an interest in it.
Of course, people earning over 100 million yen a year are often taken to great restaurants regardless of their personal interests, so they may naturally become familiar with them.
But someone earning around 20 million yen a year would generally be considered wealthy. At that level, though, it seems to depend more on the individual’s tastes and preferences.
I also don’t think it has much to do with whether someone is capable at their job.
I wonder if you may be comparing him to people earning over 100 million yen a year.
If you don’t like him, I think you should end things and date a man who suits your preferences better.
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You really can’t judge people by their appearance, can you?
He always wore a worn-out T-shirt with jeans or shorts, along with a well-worn pair of sneakers, and we only ever went to family restaurants or local Chinese places. But he ran a solid business and spent the pocket money he made from side investments—FX or something like that; I never really understood it—on car racing, which cost him ¥20–30 million a year.
He owned more than ten cars—probably close to twenty if you included the race cars that couldn’t be driven on public roads. He lived in a high-rise condo near a station—not in Tokyo—and was the kind of person who would casually consider buying a ¥400 million house in cash.
He never seemed overwhelmed by work. He always had plenty of time, and from my perspective, he just seemed to be having fun all the time…
He must be very good at running a business.
Sorry, now that I think about it, I may never have dated anyone who seemed incapable at work.
Marika
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I’m Kamihikoki, an unpopular male member who isn’t very good at his job.
Huh? Yesterday, it was the same thing… just for a short time…
You’re talking about me, aren’t you??
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