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Apr 8, 2021 12:24
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪
Normally, women get approached a lot when they’re out and about, don’t they?
If you want to date a wonderful man, the quickest way is to become a wonderful woman yourself.
Wonderful women get approached so often that it doesn’t even occur to them to approach someone first.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
That papa-katsu drama directed by Shinji Nojima was pretty good, wasn’t it? The one with Atsuro Watabe and Marie Iitoyo.
Ah, I wonder if there’s a PJ like Marie Iitoyo—stylish, cute, an ordinary college student, and capable of developing feelings for me. Well, the chances of meeting someone that perfect are probably pretty slim. I suppose we both need to know when we have enough.
I’d be put off if someone approached me on the street. Since the agency steps in, conducts an interview, and checks everyone’s ID, it’s relatively safe. Isn’t it far too risky for both sides to deal with someone whose background you know nothing about?
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Out of about 30 men I’ve met, maybe 2 or 3—but yes, they do exist.
P.S.
Aya,
I’m not sure whether I’m simply luckier with men or whether my standards are ten times more relaxed, but our odds are ten times different, haha!
Though, if we’re talking looks alone, there are hardly any.
The papas you mean are probably in their 40s to early 50s at most, right? All of mine are much older than that.
I’m in my 40s, after all.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Approaching women on the street can make you seem suspicious, so given the times, it’s probably best to avoid it.
I’ve tried several dating clubs, and there are some handsome older men there. But it feels like only about one in every 100 men I meet is really my type. The more people you meet, the better your chances, so I hope you’ll look forward to meeting someone in the future.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
There was that drama called Papa-katsu starring Atsuro Watabe, wasn’t there?
The papa I’ve been seeing for two years says watching that drama was what prompted him to join the club.
A man that handsome probably doesn’t need to do papa-katsu. I want to become Atsuro Watabe.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
As Mac mentioned, sensible men will suspect it’s a setup and probably won’t go along with it.
Still, it might be fun to give it a try. Let us know how it turns out, haha.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kamihikōki, a male club member.
I completely understand why you feel that way. It’s something I hear quite often.
Someday, you may find yourself thinking, “I can’t believe I got to meet such a wonderful gentleman—through the club and everything that led me here…”
You don’t have to go out and pick someone up. Encounters like that may come through the club too. They’re probably a matter of luck, but don’t give up…
> Would you like to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) with me?
I’ve been asked to do papa-katsu many times, but I’ve turned them all down. For now, the only papa-katsu I do is through the club.
So it doesn’t make me happy. I’m not being seen as a man—in fact, I find it unpleasant.