Question for female members: After meeting a man for the first time, if he doesn’t contact you, do you proactively send him messages or LINE texts saying things like, “I’d like to see you again” or “When are you free?”

I’m Saito, a columnist and an active male member♪ I take the approach of never reaching out first and simply replying when I receive a message. There’s no need to force a meeting—I’m happy for women to contact me whenever they need me. So I’m always glad to hear from them. lol Most of the messages I receive are about scheduling, such as: “Would sometime between the ○○th and ○○th next month work?” That said, if you’ve sent two messages and they’ve been read but ignored—or haven’t even been read—I think it’s best not to keep pursuing them.