Is it okay or not okay for men to brag to women on Universe dates?
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I suppose it depends on what they’re bragging about, but I’d like to hear things like, “This kind of story is fine,” or “This kind of bragging is absolutely not okay!”
Men on Universe are probably often successful, so talking about work could easily come across as bragging. Would stories about career success also be considered bragging and therefore a no-go?
Women often ask me about my work, so I don’t want to answer and have them think, “Oh, so you’re just bragging!”
This is related to something in another question, but I thought a man who goes out of his way to say, “It’s not like I have any trouble finding women,” at a dating club was pretty creepy! (lol)
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I think it’s fine to share a little bit of a brag, as long as you provide proof to back it up. Some women may even enjoy hearing about it.
That said, I do think it’s better not to go on for too long…
I thought it was creepy when a guy at a dating club kept saying, “It’s not like I have any trouble meeting women, you know.” (LOL)
After all, if he really didn’t have any trouble, he probably wouldn’t be at a dating club in the first place.
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I’m a somewhat lost man in my 60s.
I generally don’t talk about work, and even when discussing my hobbies, if I feel I might be bragging even a little, I quickly add, “I’m sorry!”
I enjoy drawing out the other person’s stories!
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I’m a male member, and my username is Paper Airplane.
If it sounds like bragging, then no.
I think it’s fine to share happy stories about work, fun experiences, or things that went well—those are things you can celebrate together.
But she probably isn’t all that interested, so don’t overdo it.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think it’s fine if it’s a bragging story women would find interesting, but not if it’s boring.
Sorry for answering in just one line.
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