Tips Nov 10, 2018 09:30

Hello. I’m a female member.

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The other day, the club arranged a date with a truly wonderful male member. The date was so much fun, and even now, some time later, I still get butterflies whenever I think about it. Haha. I’m also really looking forward to seeing him again, since we were able to set a date for our next meeting♪ Thank you for introducing me to such a wonderful person. Now, for my question: How do you usually keep in touch after a date? Of course, I know everyone is different... Since he has his own life and schedule, should I refrain from contacting him myself?
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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, the columnist♪ I had a good laugh watching Representative Kida raise the bar so high that no one seemed able to respond. Haha. I actually like getting messages in the morning. I’d rather avoid nighttime messages, though. Also, once the date for the next meeting is set, many women may save things to talk about until they meet in person… There can be a huge difference between the questioner’s annual income and her papa’s—anywhere from tenfold to a thousandfold—so I think they may experience time differently as well. How often a man wants to exchange messages every day also varies. I’m not that dependent on messaging myself. I can barely keep up with replying to my wife’s messages. I suppose I just don’t like having my time taken up… When you meet next time, it might be a good idea to honestly bring up how you feel excited or nervous, as well as how you’d like to communicate. I hope your wonderful relationship continues for many years to come♪
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Our representative, Kida, will answer. Thank you as well for registering with us and going on dates. How do people stay in touch after a date? That’s a truly eye-opening question. Now that you mention it, how do they? I’ve heard that many members are single or have their wives’ approval, and that they message each other on LINE every day like an ordinary couple, without worrying about anything. As for everyone else, I honestly have no idea how they handle it, so I’d love to hear from our members. Personally, I’m hoping someone will come up with thrilling methods like communicating in Swahili or using a flashlight’s on/off signal to send Morse code.
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