What is the average (or median) length of your relationships—measured in number of partners, months, or years? I’m a 47-year-old man, and my average is 2.4 partners or 5.5 months (based on 52 samples).

I’m male member Date◎Yume. I’ve been active since 2018. 2018: 0 meetings 2019: 3 meetings I currently have one ongoing relationship. We’ve been going on dates twice a month since June, and she has since left the club. I haven’t withdrawn, so I can still view the members’ page. New female members join almost every day. Including existing members, there are so many women who seem like a great match. I often find myself thinking, “I’d love to make them an offer…” I never promised not to make offers, but I don’t plan to while I’m seeing someone. I’m enjoying this battle with myself（笑）

I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.” I’m not entirely sure what you’re asking, but I hope this helps anyone who’s interested in joining the club. I only joined recently, so everything is still fresh in my memory. During my first month, I made offers to 16 women. One didn’t show up even when the scheduled time came, so I ended up meeting 15 of them. I haven’t made any more offers since then. The women I’m still seeing are: one I went on eight dates with during the first month, one who actually left the club because she said I was all she needed, one I see twice a week, one I see once a week, two I see once or twice a month, and one I see about once a month. I also have a few women on the sidelines. There are three I probably won’t see again, but might possibly meet someday; two I didn’t exchange LINE contacts with because I wasn’t interested; one where things naturally fizzled out; one who said our approaches were different and turned me down before we could exchange LINE contacts; and one I met four or five times but who stopped reading my LINE messages. As long as I continue seeing the woman who left the club and the one I meet twice a week, I don’t plan to make any new offers. Even when I look at photos and videos of new women, no one really catches my eye—and I intend to keep my promise not to make any offers. Before joining the club, I never imagined there would be so many women I’d want to make offers to, so I’m both amazed and deeply grateful.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ Until around the middle of last year, I had about 10 people, but lately, it’s either zero or maybe just one or two meetings. Is it coming to an end? I am still taking on new people, though...