The woman I’m seeing is a G cup, so I’d like her to wear something that shows some cleavage. But even when I give her clothes like that, she won’t wear them—perhaps because she feels embarrassed. I’d like to ask the women here what kind of setting might make her willing to wear them.

I’m Saito, a column writer♪ It’s much the same at the Ritz-Carlton Tokyo as Papuwa mentioned. In the evenings and at the cafés, you see a lot of women dressed very elegantly. (Actually, I was a little surprised when I saw it the other day—I’m usually either in my room or by the pool.) The Aman has an atmosphere that prioritizes hotel guests—or rather, regulars—so it feels more relaxed there. When the setting is calm and a little dimly lit, it seems to make people feel comfortable trying slightly bolder outfits. Rather than going somewhere “cheap” where you feel conscious of men’s eyes, I think they’ll come without hesitation if they’re already accustomed to visiting places where people tell them, “You look lovely.”

I’m Joe, a columnist. The G-cup woman I was seeing also made a great effort to keep her bust from standing out. She said that when she wore clothes that emphasized her chest, she felt men focused on her with curious looks instead of seeing her for who she really was. There seem to be aspects of this that men simply can’t understand. I believe I fully understand how you feel, but could you take some comfort in the fact that this has reaffirmed that you’re a wonderful woman with a sense of modesty?