I sometimes see comments on this Q&A site saying things like, “Women who have done gymnastics, ballet, or swimming are tighter,” but as a woman, I find that incredibly vulgar.
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I think it just feels instinctively disgusting to have one’s experience in sports viewed from a sexual perspective.
Am I the only one who feels this way?
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
> I guess it feels instinctively uncomfortable to have one’s sports experience viewed from a sexual perspective.
That may well be true, but I also think what Mac said is valid.
And since BB7 points out that this is a dating club, maybe it’s enough to think, “Is that really so? I wonder,” and leave it at that…
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I’m Mac, a columnist.
Is the person asking this question a man?
For women, “tightness” refers to pelvic floor function, so it’s a serious issue. Kegel exercises are even recommended to help restore function after childbirth and prevent urinary incontinence later in life.
The idea that improving pelvic floor strength is “for better sex” is itself a vulgar, men’s-magazine-style way of thinking. Please reconsider your perspective.
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I’m a male member, BB7.
I’m a man myself, and if that topic came up in an ordinary conversation, I’d think it was pretty vulgar.
But this is a dating club.
It’s a different world from mainstream society, so I suppose it’s only natural that topics like that come up so casually.
Come to think of it, in the sauna at a sports club, I once saw men and women in their 60s and 70s having a great time laughing loudly about the connection between sports and “tightness.”
Maybe as people get older, they stop trying so hard to look proper and become more open—in a good way.
And that’s fine. We’re only human.
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It is admittedly pretty vulgar. Since this anonymous Q&A box is visible to an unspecified number of people, I can understand—although I’m a man—why some people might feel uncomfortable seeing posts like that.
Personally, though, I feel that women tend to find men’s dirty jokes vulgar, while men tend to feel the same about women’s dirty jokes. In other words, we seem to find jokes of that nature from the opposite sex vulgar for some reason.
Everyone perceives things differently, so some people will agree with the questioner and others won’t. I think imposing your own values on others is the worst approach, so perhaps it’s best to just take it as “There are all kinds of people” and move on.
I see dirty jokes between men as entertainment and fantasy, so I’d appreciate it if you could take them lightly, like, “She’s tight!? No way, lol,” rather than taking them too seriously. lol
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