Tips Oct 30, 2019 16:53

What do you think about the person handling the club’s Twitter PR calling women livestock?

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I’m on the fence about registering, but honestly, I was incredibly shocked and disillusioned, so I’m thinking of looking for another club that treats individuals with more respect. I’m sure women register for all kinds of personal reasons, and if they had any respect for the work women do on a daily basis, I don’t think they would have used language like that. Isn’t it also disrespectful to the women whose photos they use for setting up dates, as well as to the men they’re making offers to? Even though I’m not a member, I found it offensive, so I imagine the members must have felt deeply embarrassed to be registered with a club that entrusts its PR to someone who can say things like that without a second thought.
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I’m a BB7 male member. To a woman who calls going out for a meal torture, “feeding livestock” (lol) seems perfectly fitting. Both this woman’s ridiculous tweet and the staff member’s comeback tweet are the kind of things you can just laugh off. It’s not as though they called all women livestock, so why get so worked up and angry? We’re not some media outlet—let’s stop this ridiculous policing of words. What a joyless world we live in.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. Kudos to the staff. You did a great job expressing what men really think to the woman on Twitter. Some women occasionally make it blatantly obvious that they think, “I’m doing you a favor by having dinner with you,” and that really rubs men at dating clubs the wrong way. Of course, I understand that this reflects how some women genuinely feel. I don’t think she meant this as a comment about every woman. Rather than getting worked up over the wording, please think carefully about the purpose of dating clubs before deciding whether to register.
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だて◎ゆめ
👨 Male Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. Just a little from me, too... > “There are middle-aged guys on papa-katsu apps saying things like, ‘I don’t want to pay! I’m looking for a genuine relationship that isn’t about money!’ Are they idiots? Why should I have dinner with some old guy when there’s absolutely nothing in it for me? From my perspective, it’s just torture.” That may be an extreme example, but I guess a lot of younger women feel that way(笑). This is helpful to know. They really believe there’s absolutely nothing in it for them. For people who feel that way, it must just be torture. I see...
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斉藤さんだぞ♪
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I’m Saito, a columnist♪ Taken out of context, it may sound a bit like something a politician would say, but… I’m registered with four clubs, and I don’t think there’s any club that’s more accommodating to women than Universe. That said, it’s only natural that all kinds of women and men join because of that. The more famous and visible this kind of dating club becomes, the more difficult things get. I’m not trying to argue against your opinion. As you felt, if a club makes you uncomfortable, there’s absolutely no reason to go through the trouble of interviewing and registering with it.
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