Tips Oct 18, 2019 18:21

When I search Twitter for “papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)” or “p-katsu,” I see so many incredible posts that I start to feel pressured. How much of it is actually true?

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I’m a male member, date◎yume. I’d never seen or read it before, so I decided to give it a try. My impression was simply, “I guess there are people like that, too.”
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East Customer Loyalty Group Aizawa from the Events Team here. What exactly do you mean by “all of them are amazing”? I wasn’t sure, so I opened Twitter—which I normally don’t use—and searched for it. “I made hundreds of thousands of yen in three days!” “It’s unbelievable if he doesn’t take me to a fancy restaurant!” “Papa-katsu means getting tens of thousands of yen just for a meal!” “I met someone with a weird fetish!” “He told me he seriously wanted to date me! Gross!” Those were some of the posts I found. ・“I made hundreds of thousands of yen in three days!” → That may happen for a very small number of papa-katsu professionals, but generally, I think these are just unrealistic clickbait posts. Maybe it’s part of a scout’s scheme. ・“It’s unbelievable if he doesn’t take me to a fancy restaurant!” → It seems that most papas do take their partners to nice restaurants, but I think you also need to make an effort to become someone who merits being taken to such places. ・“Papa-katsu means getting tens of thousands of yen just for a meal!” → I suppose it varies from person to person, but personally, I’d say: Please come back to the real world!! I don’t see how that’s different from paid socializing over drinks... ・“I met someone with a weird fetish!” → Well, of course there are people like that... ・“He told me he seriously wanted to date me! Gross!” → That’s certainly possible too—but I think it can happen with both men and women. It’s best to set clear boundaries for yourself so you can protect yourself. Does this cover what you meant by “all of them are amazing”...?
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