Do you ever worry about running out of women you’re seeing—meaning you no longer have a favorite you can meet at short notice?

I’m a BB7 male member. I’m seeing someone who’s very attractive, and I know that if another male member—someone who can offer her a higher allowance than I do—makes her an offer, she’ll probably move on. I’ve accepted that’s just how it works, so I’m not particularly worried. If she does leave, I’ll take it as a sign that the timing was right and simply make an offer to someone else（笑）

I’m Saito, a columnist ♪ I think that’s perfectly fine.

I’m a UC male member and also a member of the new salon. I’m not worried about being dropped by the women I have monthly arrangements with, either. I think that in dating clubs, there’s an underlying expectation that the man provides financial support to the woman. Because of that, women are less likely to end things with a man compared with a typical romantic relationship. If you’re only meeting a woman about once a month, that one meeting alone generally won’t meet her monthly allowance target. So she’ll probably be seeing multiple men at the same time, comparing her options, and there’s always a chance she’ll ultimately decide to drop you. However, once you move into a monthly arrangement and start meeting a set number of times and giving her a substantial amount of money, the situation changes. At the very least, the arrangement only comes together because she likes the man to some extent, and looking for someone new would be a risk for her. It would also be difficult for her to suddenly lose the allowance that had been coming in regularly each month. So once you’ve built up a relationship of trust, I think it’s relatively uncommon for the woman to be the one who ends things. If anything, I think it’s more common for the man to get tired of the woman and start thinking, “If I’m going to spend this much anyway, maybe I should switch to someone else.”

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I don’t have to worry about losing the woman I’m seeing right now, either. Since I’m a low-income member of the dating club, I’ve limited myself to seeing just one woman from the very beginning. I’ve also explained to the woman I’m seeing that I prefer a “one-person-at-a-time” arrangement. I’m looking for a serious relationship—while keeping in mind that this is a dating-club arrangement—so I tell her sincerely that I’m not meeting her just for the physical side. If that’s all she wants, I tell her to see someone else. We’re quite far apart in age, so of course it’s not like being lovers of the same generation. I went to a high school that wasn’t particularly academically competitive, so in terms of personality, I sometimes end up seeming younger than she is, which works out nicely.

I’m a male member in Seattle. Since things rarely fizzle out, I don’t have to worry about anyone cutting things off. My only concern is ending up with too many people, so it’s a shame I can’t make any more offers. I make offers to women in the A or B categories who seem like they’ll take time, and I’m just increasing the number of friends I occasionally meet. In a way, maybe they’re my backup plan for when I get rejected.