About how many times a year do you respondents have sex?
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What percentage of that is sex through dating arrangements?
I’m surprised that you seem to be much more sexually active than I expected.
(And it’s impressive that you have the financial means to do so.)
I have sex at most around 60–70 times a year:
24 times with my wife, 12 with a friend-with-benefits, 20–30 through dating arrangements, and a few visits to soaplands.
(It’s not a financial limitation—I’m simply satisfied with that number of times.)
I’m Columnist Saito♪.
I get around 10–15 a month. Since I only respond to women who contact me, it fluctuates. It’s usually just under 1.5 million yen.
Honestly, you don’t need to do that much.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
In my case, too, all of my relationships have been with women I met through a dating club.
I focus on one woman, meeting her two or three times a month—about 30 times a year.
I’m a low-income, lower-tier member, but so far I’m feeling good physically, and things with her are going well.
I imagine it may be a little insufficient for her, so I don’t pry into her words or actions. I just tell her to take care of herself and, above all, not to get sick.
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I’m a BB7 male member.
Since turning 50, I’ve felt myself declining more and more each year (sigh).
These days, once a week at most is plenty—four times a month already feels like more than enough. Lately, even once or twice a month feels sufficient.
Apparently, there are older men who can still go every day, but I honestly can’t believe it.
My wife and I are sexless due to health reasons, so it’s zero at home. I don’t visit sex workers either, so club dates make up 100% of my intimate experiences.
Some friends my age have already retired from this, so I feel pretty fortunate that I can still enjoy relationships through the club.
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I’m Rula, a male member of UC and the new salon.
All of my sexual encounters are with women I meet through the dating club. I’m single, and I don’t go to sex-work establishments.
In terms of frequency, it’s around 8–10 times a month (96–120 times a year).
*For both physical and emotional reasons, I make sure not to exceed 10 times a month, no matter how great the encounters are. If I’m getting close to that limit, I’ll say, “Let’s just have dinner today,” and adjust things on my own.
If we click, I often move to a monthly arrangement fairly quickly. So even if it’s 10 times a month, it doesn’t mean “with 10 different women!” Usually, things settle into a group of about three women—roughly three dates with each of them.
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