Tips
Jul 26, 2019 10:29
I came across this question:
This content is machine-translated.
“If you had to choose between a girl who came to meet you reluctantly and one who canceled at the last minute, which would you dislike more?”
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/1957
I’m guessing the intention may have been to ask what someone should do if they lose the motivation to go after the setting has already been arranged.
It was quite a while ago, but I once experienced a last-minute cancellation after a setting had been arranged. I made another offer for a different day, and she accepted without any problem. However, she stopped replying to my LINE messages after that.
Of course, I assume it was simply because she wasn’t interested in me. But after seeing the question above, I started wondering whether she had never really intended to meet from the beginning and had only been unable to turn me down.
The only message I received from her through the club was, “I’m sorry, but I can’t make it today.” So I have no idea whether she wants me to make another offer or whether she’s thinking, “I don’t want another offer from you.”
What do you all think?
I’d appreciate hearing a variety of opinions.
