I’m a male member in my 40s living outside a major city.

I’m in my 60s and still trying to figure things out. I meet each of them once every other month. I’m seeing more people than you are, after all…

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. I thought this was a great question, so I’ll answer based on my own experience. I’ve actually only been a member for about six months myself. I mentioned this briefly before, but when I first joined, I wondered what kind of arrangement I wanted and gathered as much information as I could. One resource I found was Darling by Universe Club, an informative column site run by Universe Group, a dating club. The column writers have posted some excellent articles. The one that especially caught my attention was Saito-san da zo’s article, “My Thinking Got Strange After Joining a Dating Club.” I thought, “That’s exactly how I feel. Okay, this is the approach I’ll take!” and I’m still following the same style today. Of course, I don’t have the financial means to make offers to many women. I’m also at the upper end of my age range and in a lower membership tier, so I focus on one person at a time: if one woman turns me down, I move on to the next. The club has told me, “You can’t have her all to yourself” (though she is free to leave the club), while I ask the women to “limit your other partners with sexually transmitted infections in mind.” What I feel sorry about is that I can’t provide the level of financial support the women want. What I find disappointing is that their profiles keep getting re-uploaded and their schedule calendars keep being updated.（笑）