I often see questions like, “I’ve been registered for a month but haven’t received any offers” or “I’ve only received X offers in a week,” and I feel that many women may be dreaming a little too big.

I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member. > I feel that many women may be dreaming a little too much. You’re all young, so I think it’s very important to pursue your dreams and work hard to turn them into reality. At the same time, though, I wonder if it’s also necessary to face reality head-on. If you deal appropriately with the reality in front of you while continuing to pursue your dreams, you may be able to spot opportunities at an early stage. That’s how I see it. > I think offers come down to timing and luck. That’s certainly true, since it also depends on your registration tier and the current demand among male members. Even if a lower-tier member like me thinks someone seems like a great match, I can’t make her an offer if she’s listed in a higher tier. When I think about it that way, I also feel we should do our best not to miss the few opportunities we get.