I’m a male member in my early 60s and have been with the club for about a year.

I have a few white hairs mixed in too, but they don’t really bother me. I get a haircut before meeting a woman, and keeping it short and even makes them much less noticeable. I’m very careful about body hair, haha. I get my eyebrows trimmed at a salon every month. I always make sure my nose hair isn’t showing by using a nose-hair trimmer. I shave my beard. I trim my armpit hair and VIO area regularly. There are some good full-body shavers out now, so I recommend getting one. And don’t forget your nails. I trim them and buff them, and I keep the three fingers on my right hand that I use for intimacy extra short. Sometimes I get a little too enthusiastic and they sting, haha. I also use antiperspirant deodorant and oral odor tablets to keep my breath fresh. I make an extra effort for a first-meeting offer, and I cut back on foods and alcohol that can cause odors starting about three days beforehand. Do your best to maintain a clean, well-groomed appearance so she’ll think, “Well, I guess I could be intimate with him if I’m getting extra money… Maybe I can go through with it.”

I get full-body hair removal. For my VIO, I’ve had the I and O completely removed, while leaving some hair on the V. I keep the remaining hair trimmed fairly short with scissors and the like, since I know shaving can be painful for women.

To put it simply, the presence of some white hairs doesn’t bother me at all. It’s natural as we age, and in some cases, trying too hard to look younger can actually stand out more. I don’t see gray hair as being unhygienic, so please don’t worry about that. Honestly, I feel that how it’s groomed is more important than whether it’s gray. A common issue is cutting it short with ordinary scissors or a razor, which can leave the ends sharp. That can be surprisingly uncomfortable—when touched, they may feel prickly or even dig into the other person’s skin and cause pain. That bothers me far more than the white hairs themselves. If you do trim it, I’d strongly recommend using scissors designed specifically for pubic hair, or a tool that leaves the ends rounded. That alone can make quite a difference in both appearance and feel. As for plucking, it can sometimes cause skin problems, and if the number of white hairs is increasing, I don’t think there’s any need to force yourself to keep doing it. Hair removal is ultimately a matter of personal preference and how you’re feeling, but as long as you maintain a clean appearance and don’t make the other person uncomfortable, leaving it alone is perfectly fine. I’ve gone slightly off track, but to sum up: there’s no need to worry about having some white hairs. More than anything, I’d simply appreciate it if you could pay a little attention to how you groom them. Naturalness appropriate to your age, along with a little consideration for the other person—that’s all you need. If you have both of those, I don’t think there’s any need to worry excessively or push yourself. Rather than putting yourself down, I hope you can approach this in a way that lets you feel, “I’m fine just as I am.”

I started getting noticeably hairier in my 40s, so I had it removed. Being completely hairless feels great when I catch other men’s eyes at a super sento. Since I’m waxed, partners will lick every part of my penis, and rimming and deep-throating are amazing too. Shaving leaves you feeling prickly, so it’s not especially popular with women, but if you’re married, this is probably the better option. If you don’t have sensitive skin, you can put a condom on and apply hair-removal cream, but I wouldn’t recommend it—if any gets on the glans, it can be painful. For reference, if you’re into group sex, swapping, or cuckolding, being completely hairless is essential.

I’m pretty hairy down there. I’m over 70, so it’s getting whiter and whiter（笑） But no one’s ever said anything. Maybe they’re just putting up with it? Anyway, I’m leaving it natural! More importantly, what about the hair on your heads?（笑） Do you remove that too?

Even if you pluck it, won’t the gray hair grow back? I don’t think gray hair can be removed with hair removal treatments… That’s why I get hair removal done beforehand, in preparation for the day it starts turning gray. It’s been very well received.

When I ask women who groom their pubic hair, they usually say men should groom theirs too. But women who don’t groom theirs often say they don’t mind. I treat it like shaving my facial hair. Update: You need to be careful about how much you trim or shave. I also ask the woman what method she prefers.