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Sep 6, 2025 23:21
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We usually meet in the evening and part ways before noon the next day, but that time we met in the evening and didn’t say goodbye until the following night. We were also intimate more often than usual.
I guess I had secretly hoped he might increase my allowance a little since we spent more time together and were intimate more often, so I honestly felt disappointed.
In what situations would a papa (a male supporter) give you an additional allowance on top of the usual amount?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
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Age: 50s
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If it bothers you, ask how late the next date is expected to run, and tell him you have plans after lunch, so you can’t stay later.
Do that a few times, keeping things to before lunch. Then, if he asks, “Why can’t you stay until the next evening?” you could say, “It’s difficult for me unless I receive a little more allowance.”
But I guess it depends on how you look at it—whether it bothers you, or whether you’re okay with it for the sake of continuing the arrangement.
In Fuu’s case, there are women who say they want to go abroad, and are fine with him covering all the expenses instead of giving them an allowance.
Though I imagine they’d be spending those three days and two nights having a lot of adult time...
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If you’re feeling unsure about it, I think it’s best to clarify the details thoroughly beforehand.
I’ve only ever met someone for either dinner only, for around two hours, or dinner for around two hours followed by another two hours afterward.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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> When do you receive an additional allowance on top of your usual allowance?
In my case, a regular date is about two hours all-inclusive, and we part ways after one round. If we’re staying overnight, for example, I tell him the additional amount in advance.
I also receive extra when we travel, since it involves a longer time commitment.
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It’s become more than just a relationship based on short-term give-and-take, so I give her a bonus whenever there’s a reason to.
In my case, I always give the allowance upfront, but bonuses come afterward. That’s what I believe a bonus is.
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ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
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I don’t want either of us to feel awkward, so whenever things are going to be different from usual, I discuss it with the woman beforehand and give her the money upfront.
It’s best to assume that you won’t be able to get any additional money afterward.