I signed up, but I haven’t received any offers. What can I do? I registered five months ago.

There’s an event at Universal Lounge on Friday the 27th, and Fuu will be there too, haha. Why not give it a try? If no one approaches you there, maybe accept that you’re not quite at the level for this site and try papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) elsewhere—lower your target level and move your main platform to places like Happy Mail or X, perhaps.

I’m Andy, a member. As Mr. Maezawa mentioned, saying “You’re lovely” leaves a good impression. I made an offer to the woman I had a first meeting with yesterday through that approach. Also, on Patro, female members can actively send messages as well. If it’s been five months without anything, I think it would be a good idea to take the initiative yourself. Hope this helps.

It’s recently become clear that some women are getting good results by sending “You look lovely.” At first, the thinking was that receiving that message from someone who isn’t your type wouldn’t spark any interest, so it wouldn’t be very meaningful. The only real benefit seemed to be when it came from a woman you liked but had happened to overlook on the listings page. So it was assumed to have only limited effectiveness. However, we’ve recently learned that many women are actually receiving offers after sending “You look lovely.” My guess is that the messages they send aren’t copied and pasted. They take the time to write a proper, personalized message to each person, and that may be what resonates with the recipient. Why not try sending “You look lovely” along with a thoughtful, personalized message to each person? Also, since it’s been five months, it may be a good time to have your photos retaken. You could message the staff on LINE and ask about getting new photos taken.

There’s no convenient solution like that. If there were, everyone would be doing it. All you can do is hope they ask to continue. If they do, ask to take new photos and hope an offer comes through.