I don’t want my activities with Universe to be found out by my friends, acquaintances, family, or anyone I may meet in the future.
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Here’s what I’m currently doing:
- Going on dates at stations far from home
- Carrying two phones and keeping the accounts separate
- Managing the money I receive separately from my living expenses so I don’t change my spending habits—and of course, not buying brand-name items
- Changing my usual clothing style and using bags and shoes I don’t normally wear
- Avoiding walking around outside with my papa whenever possible, and wearing a hat when I do
Once I’ve paid off my student loans and saved enough for studying abroad, I plan to quit immediately. I expect to do this about three or four times a week for one year.
Even with all these precautions, how likely is it that I’ll be found out? Are there any other measures I can take?
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Ironically, being that self-conscious will make people suspicious.
If you’re meeting him three or four times a week, and you properly introduce him to the people you normally see—even around your neighborhood—no one will assume it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
These days, everyone walks while looking at their phones, and people are constantly using them on trains, in shops—everywhere. Even a nationally famous celebrity could blend into a crowd in ordinary clothes, and no one would bother looking closely at a stranger’s face.
When you’re walking with your papa (a male supporter), it’s more natural to walk close together like an ordinary parent and child than to keep an awkward distance. Even if no one is watching, disguising yourself will only draw more attention.
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> How likely is it that I’ll still get found out after going to all these lengths?
I can’t say exactly how likely, but if you’re listed on Universe’s women’s profile page, for example, there’s a chance someone could recognize you from there. So I feel it might be better not to post your photo.
You may receive fewer offers, but if avoiding being found out is your priority, I think that would be the better option.
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Don’t take photos with your papa (a male supporter).
Cut ties immediately with any papa who pries into your private life.
Is that the right approach?
Information can sometimes leak from the papa’s side, even if he has no intention of letting it slip.
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If you’re that thorough, you probably won’t get found out easily—but unexpected run-ins can happen, so be careful. I was once spotted by someone I never thought would be there, in a place where I never imagined I’d run into them.
Still, judging by the way you’re leaning, I’d say there’s about a 23.4% chance, haha.
Hope that helps.
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Somehow, I feel like you’re overthinking it to the point that it seems unnatural.
I understand wanting to make a lot of money in a short period, but meeting three or four times a week sounds difficult to keep up.
Why not arrange an adult relationship two or three times a month and plan to continue it for several years? Even if someone sees you, don’t act nervous when making excuses. Just confidently say, “I was meeting my uncle,” or “I was having a meeting with my boss from work (or my part-time job).”
If you have a slightly more carefree image, you could say, “I was out eating and drinking with someone from work.”
Even if people get suspicious, confidently push back. If you overdo the precautions like you are, the papa (male supporter) may feel that you’re not getting the validation you want and see it as a transactional relationship, which could lead to things ending sooner.
Another option is to fully commit to a transactional arrangement where you only meet at a hotel: meet at the hotel, leave separately, and even exit the room at different times. Unless something extreme happens—like someone hiring a private investigator—your family, friends, and acquaintances probably won’t find out.
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I think you’ll have no choice but to quit papa-katsu and paid drinking dates. Otherwise, you’re bound to get caught eventually.
Also, I don’t think doing papa-katsu three or four times a week is realistic unless you’re extremely popular—popular enough to receive at least around 30 offers.
Out of those 30, maybe only 10 papas would be ones you’d consider having an adult relationship with, and another three or four would probably drop out easily. So you’d need six or seven good papas willing to see you every week—but there really aren’t that many generous supporters who’ll do that.
But I guess you don’t need that kind of explanation, huh? lol
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If you study abroad right after doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for a year, your family will probably figure out how you came up with the money.
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