I don’t want anyone to see me while I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so would it be a bad idea to meet and have dinner at a private or semi-private restaurant, then go to a hotel afterward? I can’t be affectionate or hold hands in public, but I’m wondering if it’s still okay for me to do papa-katsu.
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I’d also rather not exchange LINE contacts. Do some people communicate through Kakao instead?
For what it’s worth, I’m willing to be proactive about doing the kinds of things the papa prefers once we’re inside the hotel.
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If you’re in a profession where you have to be extremely careful about being identified, something like that could work too. I’d like to meet a woman I genuinely want to date despite that.
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A lot of people—both men and women—don’t want to be seen out in public, so if you mention that in your profile, I think people who feel the same way will reach out to you.
KakaoTalk is a hassle, so I’d prefer to use LINE. If possible, please get a cheap SIM phone for papa-katsu and keep two phones.
I appreciate someone who’s willing to do various things at a hotel.
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I think some men are looking for that kind of arrangement and content as well.
It’s probably best to discuss it early on so that both sides’ interests are aligned. Also, writing at least some of it in your profile can help minimize the gap in expectations for both parties.
Personally, I’m not comfortable with arrangements that feel too transactional or with someone who comes across as too experienced, so I’d appreciate it if they made that clear in advance.
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That approach sounds fine.
However, it’s better to let the man know from the start. You could mention in your profile that you prefer dates for reasons such as being worried about your identity being exposed. You could also state that you prefer to communicate via KakaoTalk.
Then, it’s best to meet only with men who are okay with that.
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