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Oct 24, 2024 17:14
My husband was doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). (It wasn’t through Universe.)
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As his wife, I’m deeply hurt.
After reading Mr. Kida’s columns and social media posts, I felt I had to ask, so I found this question box.
Call it having a mistress, papa-katsu—whatever you want. I understand that the papas and women involved may find it fun, exciting, and appealing. But how do you view the fact that some people are unintentionally hurt by it?
My husband may be doing papa-katsu even today. My dignity as a woman is gradually being stripped away.
Sometimes I find myself unable to forgive either my husband or myself.
If your answer is, “That has nothing to do with it. It’s business. Everyone is responsible for their own choices,” then I suppose that’s how it is.
I’d really like to ask Mr. Kida, who has so many wonderful words of wisdom.
Thank you in advance.
