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Oct 24, 2024 10:49
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you really want that papa to become your monthly arrangement and you’ve been getting lots of offers, you could give a vague answer along the lines of:
“I’ve had a few offers, but it’s not easy to find a good papa like you…”
If he’s a papa you don’t really care about, just answer however you feel like.
There’s no one right answer—it depends on what kind of person he is.
That said, if he responds with excessive jealousy or starts acting possessive, it could become a hassle later, so it might be worth asking just to see how he reacts, lol.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
The best answer depends on which of these is closest to what he really means when he asks, “You get lots of offers, right? About how many do you get?”
① He hopes you don’t get many. If he’s your only offer, he can have you all to himself without worrying about other men taking you away.
② He hopes you get lots. He wants you to be popular, but still choose him.
③ He’s wondering whether you’re being honest. If he keeps asking questions, any lies should eventually stop adding up, so this is just a starting point.
① is likely if he seems insecure about his looks or finances. ② fits a confident, experienced man who enjoys being praised and flattered. ③ is for someone who seems suspicious by nature.
For ①, say, “I hardly get any. You’re the only one.”
For ②, say, “I get plenty, but you’re the most wonderful.”
For ③, just answer honestly and tell him exactly how things are.
Also, though this only works when no one else is around:
“Say nothing and kiss him on the lips.”
That beats all the other answers. If he still keeps asking, kiss him again and silence him with your lips.
…I wrote that trying to sound cool, but I’ve never actually tried it, so if you ever get the chance, let me know how it goes.
システムエンジニアの会員
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Other
Men generally understand the situation to some extent, so I think it’s best to follow the staff’s response without getting too specific.
黒崎 蓮（スタッフ）
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Other
Thank you for your question.
My name is Kurosaki from the Universe Club Shinsaibashi branch.
How about saying something like:
“Thankfully, I’ve been receiving quite a few offers lately…♪
But I haven’t continued seeing anyone so far…
You’re wonderful, ○○, so I’d really like to build a long-term relationship with you♡”
Of course, what counts as “a lot” or “a little” varies from person to person, but I’ll answer based on the assumption that you’re receiving many offers and would like to continue seeing this particular person.
The key is to be honest about receiving a lot of offers. The reason is that women who receive many offers are very likely to be in the Platinum class or higher. Only men in the Platinum class or above can make offers to women in those classes, and those men can often tell how many dates a woman has had through the club’s services.
In the past, there have been cases where a man tested a woman by asking, “How many people have you met so far?”—while already knowing that she had been on many dates—and she replied, “You’re my first, ○○♡” thinking it would go over well. But her lie was quickly exposed.
As for saying that you haven’t continued seeing anyone, some men may take that negatively. However, in most cases, they see it positively because it means there’s less competition.
In fact, women often ask me about this when I meet them for interviews or profile reshoots. It makes me realize that many women are struggling with the same concern—and that many men are asking similar questions.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It depends on what they want to know and on you, so I don’t think there’s one answer as to what’s best.
横断歩道
Male
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
“Not that many, really. My schedule doesn’t line up with everyone’s, so I only meet a few.” That should work.
Even if you get 100 offers, it’s still “not enough” if your goal is 1,000. On the other hand, if you’ve only received one offer, saying “Just one” might make them think they can take advantage of you.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
In my case, I only have those kinds of conversations with girls other than my favorites, so any response is fine.
It sometimes comes up with girls I’d be happy to see once or twice a month.
The best thing to do is not look at this Q&A box.
Don’t prepare or study beforehand.
In short, the ideal is to be unable to answer anything well.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
“Wow, I don’t get that many offers, honestly♪
But you’re definitely the nicest, ○○♪”
Something like that should work, don’t you think?
Even if you lie, the staff might let it slip, so it’s often best to keep things vague.