Are all of you really making offers to 160 girls?

I think only the top few percent of papas get over 100 offers, but as long as they have the money, men can make lots of offers—that’s just how this site works. Men have it unfairly easy, right? Lucky them ^⁠_⁠^ Women are younger, so their circumstances change more often, and many breakups happen for reasons on the woman’s side: getting a job, getting a boyfriend, getting married, someone finding out, and so on. There are times when you can no longer meet and have to end things, so if you’re determined to stick around, maybe you can. Women can also turn down offers, so if your papa has bad breath, just reject him.

I do various jobs I don’t want to do and give the money I earn to my PJ. What’s unfair about that?

That’s true—when it comes to clubs, it’s pretty unfair. Men can easily find the person they’re interested in… That said, I think this applies to only a small handful of men. And depending on the man’s age, the value of it—and how grateful he feels—can be completely different as well. Maybe I’m just a bit eccentric, but whether it’s through a club or anywhere else, I believe it’s possible to meet “a woman to share your life with” or someone who says, “I want you to let me stay by your side forever.” Somehow, that’s the kind of relationship I end up having. Even with my romantic partners, the average length of the relationships is close to 20 years—perhaps they’ve all already passed the 20-year mark—so I imagine the women I continue seeing through the club will probably come close to that as well. I suppose that’s simply because I’ve been fortunate enough to have such wonderful encounters. At this point, I’ve lost the desire to keep making offers and meeting new people, so I don’t really feel any need to renew my membership. I think what fulfills us and brings us joy differs from person to person. I’m a pretty boring person, and I rarely get bored with others or have them grow tired of me. The best way to put it is that I become more interesting the more you get to know me; the less flattering version is that I’m a pointless person who has no flavor to begin with… So I suppose I just have to live in a way that suits my nature…

Offering to 160 women is impressive. I’d say I’ve offered to around 50. But there’s no doubt that when I’m making offers, I’m also looking for new women. In other words, if I meet someone great, I’m open to adding her even if I already have ongoing arrangements. Don’t assume you’ll lose before you even try. Keep working toward a continuing arrangement.

I’m still fairly new to this, so I’ve had around 20-some supporters. Including the ones I mainly meet for dinner, there are about three who have been seeing me for over a year. Since I’d like to keep things going for as long as possible, that might be on the higher side.

I’ve met a little over 100 women, and about five of those relationships have lasted more than a year. There’s one woman I feel might stay in my life long-term, so I’m considering not renewing my membership. She’d received more than 30 offers before meeting me, and I’m only the second papa (a male supporter) she’s had an arrangement with that lasted over a year. Even when we first met, she assumed it would probably end after a few dates. At a dating club, both men and women can casually meet potential partners, so I think that’s probably about the odds of finding someone with whom things will last.

Huh? Are you talking about me? 😅 Sorry about the glare. 🙇‍♂️ There’s one woman at Universe Club whom I personally feel I’d want by my side for the rest of my life. Besides her, there are two women I feel I need to support for the rest of their lives, and another two I’d like to look after as much as I can. That’s roughly how things stand. They’re all cute, so it’s not decided solely by looks or an adult relationship. When it comes to the truly exceptional ones, a very easy-to-understand example would be Aya, one of the respondents here. Either she’s managed to completely win over her papa, or she’s completely genuine. In either case, I think she’s put in an effort that ordinary papa-katsu women could never achieve. If you want to make your papa fall deeply for you, ask Aya.

The questioner doesn’t seem to have any previous questions in their ID history either. At least write something like “Nice to meet you.” I just counted mine, and I’ve received offers from 134 women since joining eight years ago. Of course, quite a few didn’t work out because our schedules didn’t match or for other reasons. The longest-running arrangement I still have is four years. I just went back through my history and looked at everyone’s names again, and there are about 28 I can remember right away. If I made an offer, met someone, was intimate with her, and it only happened once, I usually don’t remember her. I think those 28 are the women I continued seeing multiple times. That said, I was registered with other clubs too. Later, I became friendly with a scout and got introduced to women before they were put on Uni, and recently I’ve been getting more introductions from papa friends who use dating apps and enjoy dinner-only dates, since the women they know are looking for an adult relationship. So the actual number of women I’ve met and been intimate with is far higher than 134—possibly twice that, or maybe even three times. I still haven’t met “a woman to share my life with.” Then again, I’m not looking for someone like that. Even after ending an arrangement, some women occasionally contact me for advice. Sometimes I’ll meet them for a meal, and if they’re feeling down, I’ll give them a hug. We’re no longer intimate, though. There are also a few women who don’t contact me anymore, but if they ever came to me with a serious problem, I feel I’d want to support them with everything I have. Of course, with no intimacy involved. They gave me that many precious memories. But that’s still different from “a woman to share my life with.” I’m not sure whether it’s because my preferences are different from Makeo-san’s, or what exactly the difference is, but sometimes I have trouble understanding him—or rather, putting myself in his shoes. To me, a long-term relationship is something that ends up becoming long-term, not something you resolve to pursue into the future. I’ve been with my weekend-marriage partner for 20 years now, but it wouldn’t be strange if we broke up tomorrow. I see that as something that can’t be helped.