I’m a business owner in my 50s, and it’s been a month since I parted ways with my previous partner. I’ve been dating several women, but I still haven’t met anyone who gives me peace of mind. While loving my wife at home, is it possible to find another woman I can truly be myself with and love sincerely?

18-Year-Old Nipples I got to admire them five years ago, but I haven’t made an offer in the past few years. I’ll be looking forward to the next installment even if there’s no question.

Business owner in your 50s, good evening. You seem to be dealing with some pretty deep issues. I think everything would be resolved if you truly became a business owner in the fullest sense of the word. Make sure your words match your actions, and keep your promises. If your words and actions don’t match, you’re just a lying, promise-breaking, all-talk old man with no ability to follow through. Listen carefully to what other people have to say. If you don’t listen, you’re an uninteresting old man who ignores the other person’s needs and keeps repeating the same stories—a real nuisance. Show consideration for others. If you lack compassion, then physically you may be an old man, but mentally you’re an edgy, adolescent old man stuck in middle school. These are the bare minimum requirements for a business owner, but if you can manage them, the women’s opinions of you and the way they treat you will probably change, and they may become more accepting of you.

> I figure that if I date around three people for six months, I’ll be able to narrow it down. I made offers to roughly 160 women, and only two of them were women I could imagine spending the rest of my life with. Things have recently become a little uneasy with one of them, so the odds of finding an absolutely perfect woman are: 1 in 160 So, questioner, you should meet at least 150 more women through Universe Club. I’m sure you’ll find her then. I’d like to read more of Mac’s story, so please ask another question.

I think the first priority is to make the women you meet feel at ease and able to be themselves around you.

I think the key is to meet as many women as possible. If it were that easy to find someone, we wouldn’t have such a hard time. When it comes to finding a woman you’re really compatible with, you might be lucky to find one in a year.

> If the 50-something business owner forgets what he asked and posts another question, I’ll continue from there. I don’t think he actually forgot. He seems like the type who keeps posting because he wants attention, so I’m sure he’ll be back soon. For one thing, in an earlier question he even wrote: > “I ended things with a woman in her 30s, saying, ‘I won’t contact you again,’ but then I emailed her again.” He seems to believe that it’s fine to do things the other person dislikes as many times as he wants, as long as it makes him happy, and that he doesn’t have to take responsibility for his own words. Well, it’s nice that we get to read the rest of Mac’s story, but I really could do without this person’s questions... > Please tell me how to find a partner. The key is to fix that personality of yours. But that seems impossible for you. (In other words, finding one is probably impossible.) > I made offers to roughly 160 people... Just to clarify, I checked the number of offers Mr. Makeo made, and the figure was accurate. (Actually, it was a little higher. I suppose that’s about how many arrangements he had made.)

Wasn’t the previous one supposed to be the “final draft”? Did you forget? https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17235 You can forget things like that, but apparently you can’t forget about women in their 30s. I’ve asked seven questions so far. About half of them were basically me talking to myself, though. Since you seem to have forgotten what I asked, I’ll post the URLs here. You should start by reading them again. https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17213 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17219 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17231 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17232 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17234 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17232 https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/17235 I said, “Let’s try air sex,” then pushed an 18-year-old virgin down onto the bed and pressed my crotch against hers while we were both fully clothed. After reaching a stopping point, we turned onto our sides to face each other, and I hugged her as if pulling her close. With one hand, I traced around her waist. Her top had come open, so the skin from her waist to her back was bare. The soft, smooth skin of an 18-year-old. After running my hand from her back up to her shoulder, I moved around to the front, toward her stomach. Moving upward from there, I reached the edge of her bra. Or at least, I should have reached it—but perhaps the bra didn’t fit properly, because it had ridden up and left a large gap. I hesitated for a moment, but decided not to ask her permission. I simply moved my fingers silently toward the underside of her breasts. She said nothing. She didn’t seem particularly resistant either. So I went looking for her nipples. I found them. Small, cute nipples. I caressed one between my fingers. Was this really okay? It was allowed. That’s what I thought—not that this was mahjong or anything. Since things had gone this far, I figured I’d at least undress her upper body. I rolled her onto her back and pulled her top and bra up as far as they would go. Then I took one nipple and the surrounding breast into my open mouth and sucked firmly. It wouldn’t be fair to do only one side, so I did the other nipple and breast too. I found out later that this was common among 18-year-old virgins: she had never been measured for underwear. So her actual breasts were larger than the size of the bra she was wearing. They were full, firm, and plump, with no sagging at all, even when she was lying on her back. They seemed happy to be freed from the small, childish bra that didn’t fit them. I cupped one breast from the outside with one hand, making the nipple and the area around it stand out, then took it deeply into my mouth. Then I did the other side again. Next, I moved my face closer, intending to kiss her lips. That was the first time she shook her head from side to side, saying no. So kissing was still off-limits. She was okay with having her nipples sucked, but not with kissing her lips yet. More precisely, she had clear boundaries when it came to kissing and sex, but her nipples were perhaps a blind spot for her—or maybe she never expected me to approach her that way. Virgin girls really do have openings in all sorts of places. This was our second date. On the third date, I kissed her on the lips; on the fourth, I gave her oral sex and fingered her; and on the fifth, she lost her virginity. If that businessman in his 50s asks another question after forgetting that he already did, I’ll write the rest. Stay tuned, lol.

It’s a matter of compatibility, so I think the best way to find someone you click with is to meet a variety of women first.