I’d like to invite her to a pool on our first date. Any tips on how to get the staff or her on board?

Forgive me for sounding a little rough. Come on, you’re in your 40s, right? Confucius said, “At forty, I had no doubts.” Just because it’s free doesn’t mean you can ask about absolutely anything. Try using your brain a little more and enjoy the process of trial and error. Wait—don’t tell me you’ve never read the Analects. You’ll make me want to cry.

Why not wait until you’ve built up some rapport before asking?

Select a woman with a D-type profile and request a letter date. (Black members only) Then tell her the following via LINE or another messaging app: - Tell her that, for the first date, you’d like to spend ○ hours together at a pool only. - Tell her the pool’s location and name. - Tell her that you’ll give her the allowance upfront at the first-meeting spot, then head to the pool afterward. - Promise that you won’t touch her inappropriately or take any photos at the pool. Wouldn’t she agree to that? It’s easy, right?

At a pool? You could try asking, “I’d like to go to a pool on our first date. Would that be okay?” But if it’s your first meeting, you’ll probably be turned down most of the time. Is having dinner and then taking a regular bath together at a hotel really that unpleasant? It’s kind of strange. That said, some people don’t like bathing together either, so I think you should make offers a few times until you find someone who’s okay with it.

They’re not running the pool bar anymore, are they? September’s almost over, after all. What would you even do at a pool at this time of year? Admire the swimsuits? If you’re a member of a hotel fitness club, you can sometimes bring someone in as a guest, but it’s mostly regulars, so she’d probably attract a ton of attention. Some love hotels have rooms with small pools, but that’s different from what you mean, right? Finding a suitable pool sounds harder than getting a girl to go along. I’m not sure what you mean by having the staff guide her, but some girls do occasionally post swimsuit photos. You might get a good reaction by saying, “I couldn’t take my eyes off your swimsuit photos. I’d love to go to a pool with you and see you in person!” But if she hasn’t posted swimsuit photos, bringing up a pool out of nowhere would make you sound like a pervert. For girls who haven’t posted swimsuit photos, some Xiv or Baycourt Club locations have pools open year-round. You could make that the date location and, while having tea or a meal, say, “There’s a beautiful pool here. Want to go in? They rent swimsuits.” That might work, but once you consider wet hair and having to redo her makeup, I’d say there’s about a 95% chance she’ll turn you down. The remaining 5% depends on the allowance and the woman’s personality. I go to a gym pool once a week, and I’ve taken girls there a couple of times. Neither of them actually swam; they just walked in the pool. Women generally don’t like getting their hair wet. Even if you went swimming at Baycourt, it would be painfully obvious that you were a papa-katsu couple, so it sounds incredibly embarrassing. I’ve taken girls to the Baycourt pool in Gamagori twice. The first time, I thought, “This is a bad idea.” So the second time, I brought three girls—college students. That made me look more like a big shot, so it wasn’t nearly as embarrassing. Neither time was a first date. I’ve never gone to a pool on a first date, but I’ve taken girls on the Magic Mirror van many times. A lot of people probably don’t know what that is anymore, but I actually built and owned one myself. I’ve used it for both girls who made the first offer and regular offers. Girls find it pretty unusual and often say they’d like to ride in it. I’ve also taken a virgin girl to a mixed-gender hot spring on a first date. While we were driving around after meeting, we got to talking about mixed-gender hot springs, and she said, “I love hot springs. I’d like to try one.” The Magic Mirror van and mixed-gender hot springs are unusual, so some girls find them interesting. But pools aren’t unusual at all. I think going on the Magic Mirror van on a first date has a much lower threshold than going to a pool on a first date. Seriously. At Baycourt, you might have a chance if you said, “I suddenly feel like swimming again. Would you come with me? If you do, I’ll buy you a ReFa hair dryer afterward as a thank-you.” That might improve the odds from 5% to 30%. Ah, but if it’s after dinner, she might turn you down because her stomach will be sticking out—so maybe it’s actually 0%. By the way, this summer I dressed two girls in these swimsuits and had fun taking photos of them by the beach. I also had sex with one of them behind some rocks. https://x.gd/tKHbK They’re open-crotch swimsuits, so everything is fully visible, but since the upper body is well covered, they look sexy without being obvious from a distance. If someone comes along, you can quickly wrap something around your waist. I recommend them if that’s your kind of thing. > Would a hotel with an indoor pool work? In Nagoya, I assume you mean the pool at the Tokyu Hotel. Since the membership fees are higher than those of ordinary gyms, local company presidents and chairmen are regulars and go there almost every day. Anyone who can take a papa-katsu girl to a place like that must have nerves of steel. Still, a completely new-rich person who made money through investments and has no connections in the local business world might not care. But if you run an actual business, you’re bound to be connected to someone there somehow. I wonder if people in Tokyo don’t have that same concern because there are just so many people.

I’m not sure why you would need to steer the staff, but at Universe Club, the first step is supposed to be having a meal together. So you could choose a hotel with a night pool and have a dinner date at its restaurant. Since anything after the dinner date is considered free romance, you might be able to invite her to the pool afterward and go there on the first meeting, depending on how you ask. If what you mean is, “I’ll probably be turned down if I ask directly, so could the staff do something about it?” then, as a Black-class member, I’d suggest making offers to around ten Black-class women without being too selective. If you make offers to ten women in one month and don’t receive a single bad review, the staff will probably start seeing you as a good guy. Then you could ask something like, “I’d like to invite her to the pool after our first dinner. Could you find out whether she might be open to going?” Normally, staff don’t ask about free-romance arrangements. But since it’s coming from such a good man, they might think, “Perhaps the woman would receive a substantial additional allowance just for going to the pool and would appreciate being invited by him.” In that case, they might actually ask her first and then arrange the meeting. On the other hand, if a man says, “I’m Black-class, so obviously you should be able to ask whether she’ll go to the pool, right?” the response will simply be, “It’s against the rules, so no.” It should go without saying, but the staff are human too. That said, I don’t think you necessarily have to insist on going the first time. Some women might agree from the second meeting onward. If you’re being turned down, it may be more about the way you’re inviting them. > Pool bars aren’t operating anymore, are they? September is already over. I was assuming an indoor pool at a hotel would work as well. - Cerulean Tower Tokyu Hotel - Andaz Tokyo Toranomon Hills - Imperial Hotel Tokyo - Hilton Tokyo - Grand Nikko Tokyo Daiba A search turns up some others as well, though I apologize if their indoor pools are closed during the winter.