I’ve been looking for a monthly arrangement lately. One of them is someone I’ve had a regular arrangement with for a while, and we have a genuinely good time together. But whenever I’m with someone new, I somehow end up crying every time.
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It’s not that I dislike it—in fact, I generally enjoy being intimate—so I don’t understand why the tears keep coming. Sometimes I even start crying on the way to the hotel. The people I meet are all kind, which makes me wonder if there’s something wrong with me.
I might assume this is a question about how your feelings for someone you’ve been seeing on a monthly arrangement have grown so deep that you tear up when meeting someone new. That makes me feel pressured to come up with an answer that says it’s actually something else（笑）
Setting psychology aside, the most realistic possibility that comes to mind is a fall allergy—ragweed, for example. Younger people are so used to internet slang that they might write “ragww” when they see “ragweed.”
Taro
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What an interesting phenomenon.
This is the first time I’ve heard of it.
I thought I’d seen and heard just about everything by now, but I guess there are still plenty of things I don’t know.
This is just speculation, but could it be a stage in your development as a woman?
You learned to enjoy physical pleasure first, but perhaps you’re now developing that uniquely feminine desire to belong to one man.
You seem young, but although you appear to be sexually experienced, don’t you have little or no experience with romantic relationships?
Most women start with emotional romance and then move on to exploring their bodies, but maybe in your case, your emotional development is lagging behind.
I’d like to know whether I’m right or wrong, so if you don’t mind, I’d be happy if you could share your thoughts on my answer by posting another question.
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You don’t really need to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place, and you can quit whenever you want—even right away…
If you’re looking for the next one, that means you’re feeling pressured enough to do so. In a way, that shows you’ve got determination, so you should keep moving forward.
That said, if you’re still a teenager, there are plenty of possible paths in life where you can get by without papa-katsu. You’ve got so much ahead of you…
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That’s completely normal.
Every now and then, you suddenly come to your senses and think, “What am I even doing?”
You’ve got plenty of time before you start feeling that way.
When you’re young, throw yourself into things you can only do now. Start with working out.
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