Either way, if you’re thinking about ending things, why not tell him?
The terms are good, so you may not find another papa (a male supporter) with the same arrangement.
Even if you do part ways, please be grateful to the papa who’s been seeing you until now.
How much of an impact the difference between ¥20,000 and ¥10,000 has on you is up to you, but if it were me, I’d continue seeing that papa (a male supporter) next month for the time being. If he still wants to keep it at ¥10,000 after that, I’d either end things or wait a few months and see how it goes before deciding.
I wouldn’t ask him for the difference.
It depends on the trust you’ve built over the past two years, but if he’s genuinely kind, he’ll probably add a little extra next time and say, “Sorry about last month.”
It depends on the overall arrangement, including how much time you’re expected to spend together, what the meal is like, and whether there’s a gift or souvenir.
So, this time you went on a date for ¥10,000, right?
If that’s the case, I think this particular situation is already over and done with. The real question is whether he’ll offer ¥10,000 again next time.
If the allowance is the same as before, I think it’s fine to continue seeing him. But if you ask for the amount from the previous date, I feel he may be the one to cut things off.
If you’d rather end it before he does, then it sounds like he may already be debating whether to end things himself, so I think it might be better for you to walk away.
Instead, think carefully about what would make him want to continue seeing you under the same terms as before, and focus on making the time more enjoyable for him.
Come to think of it, more and more women at Universe are receiving ¥20,000 or ¥30,000 just for the first dinner.
The rules say ¥5,000–¥10,000, but it isn’t against the rules for a man to want to pay more because he feels a particular woman is worth it. If he wants to see her again, many men have enough money to pay ¥20,000–¥30,000 for dinner alone.
However, if he feels ¥10,000 is enough, that’s all he’ll pay.
The question is whether you can successfully capture his interest. Men commonly spend over ¥100,000 just talking at a hostess club for one night. In some cases, they may even spend ¥1–2 million in a single evening.
Considering that, men can certainly afford to pay ¥20,000–¥30,000 for a dinner date if they really like the woman. Whether you can make him want to spend that money is up to you.
(Though I imagine part of the reason is that he wants to go to a hotel next time.)
I also recently heard about a woman who found a papa (a male supporter) willing to pay ¥50,000 for dinner only.
There’s still plenty of hope at Universe.
He should just accept it and stop meeting her. If he tries to bargain you down again, I think it’s fine to end things. Once it happens once, it’ll happen again. He doesn’t seem financially capable of covering the shortfall.
