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Sep 10, 2024 08:22
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🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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Some men are satisfied with just once, so I think it really depends on the person.
That said, I think there are quite a few men who want to go twice, and there are probably women who feel the same way.
So I feel you might want to be prepared from the start for the possibility that it could happen twice.
Of course, you shouldn’t force yourself to do anything you don’t want to do. If he asks, I think it’s fine to handle it the same way you have been—but you might be happier if you meet a man who’s satisfied with once.
That said, if you yourself feel, “I don’t really like it,” then I do think it would be better to try to be a little more understanding.
If you turn him down and he looks disappointed, showing a little remorse may make him think, “It’s disappointing that she’s not very passionate, but she has a good personality, so maybe I’ll see her again.”
P.S. After he came, she looked at it and happily complimented him, saying, “Wow, that’s a lot.” That made me really happy.
If it had been a small amount, she might have asked, “Did you do it with someone else?”
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Once doesn’t feel like enough, so I’d like to do it two or three times… Am I the only one?
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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On the other hand, even when we’ve verbally agreed to something like “12 for up to three hours in a room, with two rounds,” there have probably been about 15 million times when the girl fell asleep after the first round, so it ended there.
Of course, someone like that never gets a second chance.
Lately, because I hate dealing with situations like that, I say something like: “8 for one round, and if you want to continue, we can do a second round for an additional 4. The maximum is 12.”
I’d be happy if this got across, even by 0.1 millimeter, that women aren’t the only ones who end up feeling disappointed (though I know it probably won’t).
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🏅 デート開拓者
ユニバース5年目。女性とはいろいろな商業施設に行ってデートしています。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Some people’s first round lasts an hour, while others’ lasts five minutes.
What does “round” even mean?
I take a short break when the woman orgasms, even if I haven’t. If we repeat that, how many rounds does it count as?
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Personally, I like to do it twice, so I don’t continue seeing women who can’t—I look for women who can, haha.
If we stay overnight, we might do it five times. I prefer women who are sexually adventurous and enjoy having sex together. Those relationships tend to last longer, haha.
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve always disliked the expression “second round.” I find myself thinking, “You’re not fighting a battle, are you?”
I’m in my 60s, and I still ejaculate with a different girl during the day and at night every day, so I haven’t experienced what people call a “second round” in a long time. But when I was in my 50s and had just started papa-katsu, if I asked a girl for a second round and she turned me down, I never saw her again. There were probably about two of them.
You can’t help wondering whether she actually disliked it or was just putting up with it.
When I was 50, I once had nine rounds in a single night—nine ejaculations. Before my 40s, I don’t think I ever stopped after just one round. It was so long ago that I don’t really remember.
The person who asked this question needs to properly face the realities of a young man’s physiology. A school trip isn’t over until you get home, and sex isn’t over until all the semen has been released.
Don’t just brush it off with some convenient excuse like, “I already came once, so isn’t that enough?” If she says, “It starts to hurt if it goes on too long,” or “I’ll miss my curfew—or the last train,” then of course I’ll accept that and back off.
Come to think of it, I remember an ex-girlfriend who would look at the semen after I ejaculated and happily compliment me, saying, “Wow, you came a lot.” That felt good.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
As you wrote, whether someone asks for a second round depends on the individual and the relationship. What you do when asked also depends on the person, the relationship, and how you feel at the time.
For example, I’m not someone who tends to ask for a second round. However, women do sometimes ask me for one. Whether I agree depends on my physical condition and mood at the time.
I don’t think it will do you any good to ask what other people do. If you want to provide standardized sexual services, you’d be better off working at an adult entertainment establishment. There, they set the time and number of times for you—for example, unlimited ejaculation within the allotted time.