Are dates after the second one without dinner—just going to a hotel—okay or not?

? Something just feels off. The way they use emojis, hearts, tildes, and stuff... Feels like it might be a man—and a fairly old one at that. Would someone in their 20s really say “food loss”? lol Sorry if I’m wrong, though.

I couldn’t agree more. The differences in how men and women perceive things can be scary, so I tend to talk things over with the other person right away. It’s a shame you haven’t met a papa (a male supporter) you can enjoy meals and other activities with. Also, since this is a Q&A site, it would have been better if you’d included a question.

That’s absolutely true, and very straightforward. Men are idiots who get the wrong idea, after all… There’s really no point in a man booking a nice restaurant, is there? (The woman has to keep saying how delicious everything is…) There are also extremely opposite types of women, like you, and then there are women who are the exact opposite. Either way, I like extreme personalities… I’m an idiot myself, after all… P.S. Oh, and to give an example of the opposite: my daughter often invites me to movies or idol concerts, so the two of us go out together for quite a long time. (Recently, her mother has started stepping in and saying, “That’s strange. You should stop.”) Maybe it’s that same kind of feeling, but women from the club sometimes keep looking for more and more places to go during long outings, making reservations under their real names, and going out to eat or see things one after another endlessly—without their allowance increasing or going to a hotel. I’m always amazed at how they can keep finding more and more things to do and enjoy, as if there’s no end to it—things a man would never think of. They’re so straightforward about doing exactly what they want that I’m honestly moved by it. They were complete opposites, though… Your comment is also remarkably straightforward. And your wording was a little gentler this time, too.