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I had one papa who wanted to meet near a hotel and part ways near the hotel too. Is that normal?

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Other papas from different dating clubs take me out for expensive meals or to department stores and buy me gifts. Do papas who meet and leave near a hotel mistake this for a hotel-based escort service or a delivery escort service? I might be okay with it if the allowance were really generous. But riding an elevator to the guest-room floor with a much older man is pretty awkward and stressful. And walking into the hotel side by side instead of taking a taxi is mentally exhausting.
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I’d say she seems like the kind of woman who can respect the other person’s perspective, too. If you want her to change the way she’s doing things now, why not try talking to her about it? (∗•ω•∗)
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関西在住で多趣味です。 最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。 スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
A noticeably mismatched-age couple in a department store’s VIP sales area might be a perfect photo opportunity for a private investigator. Whether you’re at a hotel, a department store, or a high-end restaurant, people can tell from the atmosphere that it’s papa-katsu. To avoid being recognized, I think the best approach is to enter separately with a time gap, like a delivery-service arrangement. Even if you take a taxi, you’ll still feel awkward at a staffed front desk. Honestly, it would be quicker to tell your partner directly: “I want you to buy me things. I want to eat somewhere expensive. If we’re not shopping or dining, I’d like a higher allowance.” If they stop inviting you after that, then the relationship has simply run its course.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Some women prefer meeting directly in a hotel room because they don’t want their identity exposed. Others want to save time and don’t need a dinner date. Even with a dinner date, you’d usually take a taxi and ride the elevator together, right? This question has quite a few points that invite criticism. If he won’t listen to the woman’s perspective and you find the questioner too difficult to deal with, I think it’s fine to end things. It depends on the person more than on which dating club they’re with.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Does it really matter whether it’s considered normal? If meeting up feels awkward and burdensome, maybe you should have the man wait in a room and go directly to him, like with a hotel escort or delivery escort service. Alternatively, instead of looking for a partner through a dating club, wouldn’t it be easier to work for a hotel escort or delivery escort service and save yourself all the hassle?
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