I’m a woman in my 30s and just joined.

Since filters can be removed, I think natural, unedited photos are better. For workout photos, rather than anything too intense, I’d go with something where you look like you’re smiling and enjoying yourself. It’s nice if your slim waist, perky butt, and beautiful legs show naturally. Personally, defined vertical abs are fine, but a full six-pack is a turnoff lol. I think photos taken at a regular café or at home, where you look cute, work best.

Honestly, a lot of selfies are heavily edited, and ones with particularly excessive or sloppy editing can leave a really bad impression. Also, focusing too much on one particular trait can actually lead to fewer offers. For example, if you emphasize too much that you love drinking, men who don’t drink may decide not to contact you. Since a workout shot can show a more casual side, I’d suggest including one, along with photos showing different expressions and styles. Ideally, you want photos that encourage men who are on the fence about making an offer to take the plunge.

Rather than the particular setting, I don’t think unedited photos will hurt your chances. Seeing what you normally look like can often be the deciding factor. It’s much easier to decide whether to make an offer when at least one photo clearly shows your face up close and gives a sense of your usual expression. Photos where your face and appearance are reasonably clear and unedited are probably more effective than a bunch of shots taken from too far away or where you’re just doing something. It would be a shame if a man took the trouble to look at your profile photos, only to lose interest because they’re all heavily edited and leave you seeming mysterious. That said, if I really like someone, I’ll still make an offer…