I have a question about the allowance for a second date.
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I understand that transportation costs are usually given on the first date, but what about the second date? For example, if the allowance for an adult relationship (intimate) is ¥50,000, do you give that amount plus transportation costs, or is transportation included in the ¥50,000?
I’m sure it varies from person to person, but I’d like to hear how everyone else handles it.
I consider the travel money a thank-you for coming to the first dinner, so I don’t offer it from the second meeting onward.
To avoid any misunderstandings, I let women know that there won’t be any travel money after the first meeting.
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I only add travel expenses for the first meeting.
There’s no travel allowance from the second meeting onward.
For example, if the allowance is 50,000 yen, it would be 50,000 + 10,000 yen for the first meeting if things progress, and 50,000 yen from the second meeting onward.
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I include everything in the total.
To be more specific, I set an overall budget for each date and discuss with the woman how to allocate it among the meal, hotel, transportation, allowance, and so on.
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Either option works.
Usually, the allowance includes transportation costs as well.
When negotiating, I start by saying that the amount includes transportation and everything else.
From the first date, I’ll say something like, “I already gave you 1 earlier, so how about adding 4 more, for a total of 5?”
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