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Jul 20, 2024 12:27
There’s a man I met through a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) app who’s 20 years older than me.
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We met in May, and since we got along well and were compatible, things were going smoothly. We both agreed to stop using the app, and I quit without hesitation.
However, two months later, he said, “A friend told me there was someone who looked like you and showed me her profile. So you’ve started using the app again?” Before hearing me out, he told me we should say goodbye.
I had no idea what he was talking about, so I ended up arguing, asking why he wouldn’t listen to me. In the end, he decided to trust me and we continued our relationship, but I still wonder whether his friend really showed him my profile—or whether he registered again himself.
We had also started seeing each other less often recently, so I’m worried that maybe he’s gotten tired of me.
Do men talk among themselves about doing papa-katsu and show each other photos of the girls they’ve met?
