Tips Jul 18, 2024 09:03

During my messages with a man I see regularly, he sometimes sends me things that are clearly meant for someone else.

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He calls me by a different name, or brings up topics we haven’t discussed, saying things like, “I bought that [item] you mentioned the other day, too!” He never unsends the message or follows up with something like, “Sorry! Wrong person!” so he doesn’t seem to realize his mistake. Of course, it’s perfectly normal for him to be seeing multiple women—I’m not only seeing him either—and I assume these are what you’d call accidental messages sent to the wrong person when he’s messaging several people at once. But how should I respond? - Point it out in a cute way so it doesn’t create tension - Point it out clearly and directly - Pretend I didn’t see it and let it slide What would be the most appropriate approach? For context, he’s still relatively young, and we see each other two or three times a month. I’d appreciate advice from either men’s or women’s perspectives.
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シアトル
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Let’s put on an obviously fake cry and say, “I won’t forgive you unless you give me some spending money.” If you mess up, the basic rule is to apologize with money.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
What’s appropriate depends on your personality, the other person’s, and the nature of your relationship.
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Meg
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光と影
Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
They’re young, but they keep slipping up way too much, lol. Let’s just let them keep going—it’s hilarious ♡
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