Tips Jul 5, 2024 15:27

When you’re seeing multiple people, don’t you ever get their names, or the places you’ve been together, mixed up?

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I feel like there are more and more moments when I can’t remember someone’s name right away, or I wonder, “Did I already tell him this the last time we met?” How do you all keep track?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Even when I’m seeing multiple women, it’s only about three at a time. I also make a point of not dating women who are too similar to each other. So I never forget their names or what kind of women they are. The only time I feel my memory is slipping is when I forget we’ve already talked about something and end up telling the same story twice.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I remember their names and where we met, of course, but this happens pretty often on second dates. Once I can no longer view the woman’s profile, I lose the clues that helped jog my memory, so I often can’t remember what we talked about last time. I’m getting older and really noticing my memory isn’t what it used to be.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
When both of you are seeing multiple people, you probably naturally make sure through your conversations and dates not to get anyone mixed up. You can probably tell to some extent from where you go and what you do on your dates, too…
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Names should be fine, at least. I often have the same kind of small talk both in my everyday relationships and with people from the club, so sometimes I lose track of who I told what to. As for how to deal with it... sorry, I can’t think of anything.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Perhaps because I only date women I’m genuinely interested in, I’ve never had that kind of experience. I’ve heard that some women who work in the adult entertainment or nightlife industries take notes about things like what they discussed with each customer.
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