Tips Jun 21, 2024 21:39

Papa-katsu Among Nonsexual and Asexual Men and Women

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This may be a naive question, but… There are certainly people of all genders who have romantic feelings toward the opposite sex but dislike engaging in sexual relationships—those who are nonsexual—as well as people who don’t experience typical romantic feelings toward the opposite sex, or sexual relationships, at all—those who are asexual. Among the members of Universe Club, are there actually nonsexual or asexual members, regardless of gender? Do nonsexual or asexual people really participate in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? If so, when both people hit it off, is it possible for the relationship to develop into one without an intimate relationship?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Are you the person who previously asked about changing the definition of Type A because you don’t have sex? lol At the end of the day, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is a relationship involving money. Women usually don’t have much romantic interest in their papas. They may act interested for the money and entertain the men in exchange for their allowance. The women here generally fall into two categories: Type A, who go on dates like meals or coffee but don’t want an intimate relationship, and women who may be open to an adult relationship (intimate), depending on the circumstances, and want a higher allowance than Type A women. Type A does exist, but there isn’t much demand for it from papas (male supporters), so there aren’t many women registered under that type. This really isn’t the place to expect romantic feelings. If you’re looking for romance, try a dating app or a marriage-oriented dating app!
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
First, I’ll edit the question to make it easier to understand. —Start of edited version— Papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for men and women who dislike sexual relationships or do not develop romantic feelings toward the opposite sex This is just a simple question, but I’d appreciate your answers. There are certainly people who have romantic feelings toward the opposite sex but dislike becoming sexually involved, as well as people who do not develop ordinary romantic feelings toward the opposite sex at all—not just sexual interest. Among the members of Universe Club, are there actually men or women like this? Do people like this participate in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? If so, when both parties hit it off, is there a possibility that the relationship could develop without becoming an adult relationship (intimate)? —End of edited version— Answer 1: I’m sure there are people like that. Considering the purpose of dating clubs, though, I think relatively few people would pay a considerable amount of money to meet someone despite having no romantic feelings, or to seek a relationship without an adult relationship (intimate). Answer 2: There’s certainly a possibility that it could develop into a relationship without an adult relationship (intimate). From a woman’s perspective, if she can receive a proper allowance without an adult relationship (intimate), that would be more than welcome.
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Not Everything Needs a Label(笑) For women who aren’t looking for a sexual relationship, there’s a category called Type A. Men also have a “platonic relationship” checkbox on their profiles, so I suppose there are men like that too. As for romantic feelings, I think the majority of people see dating clubs as separate from romance. Sometimes romantic feelings develop as a result, but joining a dating club because you want to fall in love feels kind of off. I mean, what does “I want to fall in love” even mean? Are you some maiden in love with the idea of love? Or a man who wants to get an erection? An erection is merely a result, and maybe obsessing over wanting one is exactly what causes ED. “I want a love that burns passionately” is practically a punchline. There was an old manga with that kind of premise—*Kibun wa Keijijo* or something. I wonder how many people will get that reference(笑) Anyway, most dating club members are probably multisexual, dating multiple people at once, while most male members are likely hypersexual, with fairly strong sex drives. On the other hand, many female members might be “moneysexual.” So yeah, stop putting a name on everything(笑) Taro
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