I’m a married woman in my late 30s living in the Kanto area, and I’m registered with a club.
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It’s been about three months since I registered, but I haven’t received any offers. I do get favorites from the club, but I’ve only received one offer so far. (It fell through because our schedules didn’t work out.)
When I look for a papa (a male supporter) through apps and similar platforms, 80–90% of them say they want to keep seeing me.
The reasons I can think of for not getting offers are that I photograph terribly, while in person I apparently give off a strong aura and people often take a liking to me.
I’m very curious by nature, so I’d really like to experience receiving at least one offer through the club. Do you think I might have a chance if I ask them to take my photos again?
From what I’ve read on blogs, I feel like there’s still plenty of demand for women my age, so I want to keep trying. Someone, please find me and send me an offer, lol.
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For married women in their late 30s, there is some demand at Universe Club, but they generally receive relatively few offers.
You mentioned turning down an offer because the dates didn’t work. If I were in the woman’s position, I probably would have tried to rearrange my other plans so I could meet him.
If she’s attractive, having her photos retaken could lead to more offers.
That said, some club men tend to avoid women who are popular on dating apps.
So if her profile says she has a lot of experience with dating apps, she may have a hard time receiving offers.
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You could ask the club to take new photos after about three months or six months, I think.
But honestly, I don’t think things will change that much.
They make an overall decision after looking at both your video and profile.
You might want to try the lounge that Flagmaker mentioned at least once.
That said, if you’re getting demand on the app, maybe you should just continue using the app…
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Personally, I’m not interested in meeting women who talk about things like their “aura.”
Maybe it’s because I don’t rely much on photos, but I’ve never looked at a female member’s profile picture and thought she came out badly. I often see private photos and think, “You really shouldn’t have uploaded this one.”
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If the photos from the previous shoot came out poorly, they’ll probably retake them.
If someone consistently photographs poorly but still has a certain vibe and visual appeal, I assume the club adds comments to help present her in a better light. You also need to be considerate so that the club staff will write favorable comments about you.
Personally, though, I don’t believe the claim that someone is simply “bad in photos” at all. I’ve never thought someone was beautiful when they constantly go around saying they photograph badly.
For example, some women look at their best in every photo, always smiling brightly from the same angle. They’ve probably studied the angle that makes them look best and consistently put it into practice.
Women who photograph badly simply aren’t putting in enough effort. Perhaps because they don’t pursue their own beauty, many of them also lack consideration for others.
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If your photos didn’t turn out well, I think it’s perfectly fine to retake them or upload some private selfies.
If you think he’s great, send him a message—and if he’s also registered on PATOLO, try messaging him there individually as well. It’s worth doing everything you can.
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