Tips Apr 19, 2024 14:06

What do you think about the crime of non-consensual sexual intercourse?

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The other day, I saw a news report about a man who was arrested after allegedly having intercourse with a delivery-based escort. I’ve been seeing more stories like this lately, and couldn’t something similar happen with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) too? So, if a woman I previously had an adult relationship (intimate) with later said she hadn’t consented, there’s a possibility I could be arrested, right? Are any male members taking precautions? Of course, I would never force myself on a woman who was clearly unwilling. But I’m starting to worry that if she later says, “I couldn’t say anything at the time, but I really didn’t want it,” there’d be nothing I could do. I’m even considering switching to Type A…
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When it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), it seems hard to argue that there was no consent when an adult woman is dating someone in exchange for an allowance. As adults, shouldn’t we simply focus on keeping things classy and enjoying ourselves?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’re worried, just switch to Type A. Women are putting their names and social standing on the line when they file a lawsuit, so wouldn’t they only do it if something really awful had happened to them? Personally, I don’t do anything that unpleasant, I pay the allowance properly, I always use protection, and I don’t do anal (I’m not into it), so I think I’m fine.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
Could you be arrested if a woman from your past says, “I didn’t consent”? To put it simply… If the authorities decide, “We’re going to arrest this guy,” they can arrest anyone. And if they decide, “We’re not going to arrest this guy,” then no one gets arrested. Just look back at the news—you can think of plenty of examples, right? lol When you’re pursuing someone, be honest about your feelings, while always putting their feelings and wishes first. Even if they don’t say it out loud, you should be able to tell by looking into their eyes: “She’s uncomfortable” or “She’s not really into it.” So be honest and act sincerely—especially when it comes to relationships between men and women. It’s me.
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I’m sorry, I’ve never used adult entertainment services, but isn’t intercourse prohibited at delivery health services?
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I think the crime of non-consensual sexual intercourse is something only people who can’t build a proper human relationship with the other person need to worry about. Even when I use delivery health services, I’m the type who waits for the girl to ask whether I want the full service, so I haven’t taken any precautions. If you’re worried, why not simply switch to Type A without saying anything?
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