Ladies, what specifically makes you feel that a male supporter truly values you?
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He’s very kind, and we have great chemistry, including physically. However, I only receive an allowance of ¥10,000–¥30,000 per meeting, even though we meet reliably every week—about eight times a month. On the days we meet, we spend the entire day shut away in a love hotel. We occasionally go out for dinner too.
He’s a doctor, so I’m learning a lot from him, but I sometimes wonder whether Aya, one of the female respondents, would cut ties with a man like this. What do you think?
It’s hard to find someone whose personality I click with this well, so I’m torn. I’d appreciate your advice.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂20s👑Universe female member
You’re putting up with far too much.
Why don’t you end things with him?
I’ll offer you a better allowance on a pay-per-meeting basis, so break up with him and make me a counteroffer.
If I like your face and appearance, I’ll accept.
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What exactly is your goal here?
It looks like he’s the only one getting what he wants.
If your goal is something other than the allowance, then there’s no problem—but I’m sure that’s not really the case.
Even ¥240,000 a month isn’t particularly much.
I imagine he enjoys going on dates with the women who are important to him. Since he spends all his time with you at hotels, he probably has no trouble seeing those women without even going to a hotel.
Your presence may allow him to enjoy dates with his primary partner without making it seem like he’s only interested in her physically. And if he can see you twice a week, he may be seeing other women just as often—or even more.
From a man’s perspective, if the dates are enjoyable, he’ll want to go on lots of dates and naturally let things lead to the hotel. But if the dates aren’t particularly enjoyable, it gradually becomes hotel-only. In that case, it may simply be that he can meet you anytime and for as long as he wants as long as it’s at a hotel.
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Sorry if I’m answering before Aya.
It sounds like your papa (a male supporter) really likes you. And it may be difficult to find another kind, compatible papa like him.
But if it were me, I’d probably want to reduce the number of times we meet. You’re really doing your best—that’s admirable…
Being valued isn’t measured by sweet words or whether he buys you designer bags.
It’s being able to feel:
“He won’t make me do anything I dislike.”
“He won’t put me in danger.”
“He won’t suddenly disappear.”
In other words, knowing you’ll be able to meet him again—and want to—without worrying.
For someone in her twenties, I feel like that allowance and the amount of time you’re tied up just aren’t worth it. Unless you really, really love him, you couldn’t keep doing it♡
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