When I met a single man I’d met through a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) app for the second time, he asked me, “Would you seriously consider dating me?”
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Since we hadn’t been intimate yet, I figured he was saying that because he thought he could sleep with me without paying if we were dating. I told him I wasn’t looking for a boyfriend and turned him down.
Since then, we’ve met up twice more and I’ve received an allowance in exchange for being intimate. Do you think I’m right about why he asked me back then if I would seriously date him?
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I’m not sure if this is always true, but generally speaking, when someone starts with “seriously,” what follows is often anything but serious.
In my opinion, a woman as alluring as you should never trust an older man’s proposal unless “I’ll double your allowance” comes right after “seriously.”
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You met him through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), right?
In my experience, whenever someone says they want a serious relationship, the allowance never continues.
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Men are creatures who get carried away and read too much into things.
Could it be that he simply developed feelings for a moment?
And when you say he’s serious, I’m not sure whether he means as a papa (a male supporter), or something closer to being your boyfriend… Could it just be that he wants intimacy without having to pay?
Men’s way of thinking can be said to be the complete opposite of women’s—which is why we’re attracted to each other—so I guess it’s still impossible to understand them…
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Only the person who said something knows what they truly meant.
What “dating seriously” means—and what “boyfriend” means—differs from person to person. More than that, it can even vary depending on the situation.
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I’m Manami, a female member.
You’d honestly be at a loss if a papa (a male supporter) asked you a question like that, right?
Only he knows what he meant by it. But if you’re receiving an allowance and the arrangement is still continuing, I think you’re doing the right thing.
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