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Apr 14, 2024 22:52
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I interviewed with Universe and found out that I’m in the Gold class.
Black → So beautiful or cute that people do a double take
Platinum → Beautiful or cute by anyone’s standards
Gold → Pretty cute
Standard → Average
I believe the classes are roughly divided up like that.
Until now, whether through matching apps, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) apps, parties, introductions from friends, or work, almost every man I’ve met for the first time has complimented me by saying things like, “You’re beautiful,” “You have such a lovely presence,” or “You have a great figure.” I’m also often told things like, “You probably have no trouble finding men even without using apps, right?” “Why are you using an app?” or “I thought this might be a honey trap.”
I’ve never had a meeting with a man I met through a papa-katsu app—where an allowance is involved—end after just one time. They always ask to meet again.
Almost every man I’ve met has asked, “Would you meet me again?” and invited me to see him another time. Eventually, some have even tried to win me over by saying they’d like to date me. (This doesn’t apply to every single one.)
I’m not dissatisfied about being placed in the Gold class. However, based on everything I’ve described above, don’t you think I could reasonably be Platinum, even if not Black?
The man who interviewed me at Universe has met all kinds of beautiful and cute women, so I assume he has a discerning eye. But, conversely, many of the men I’ve met have also met a lot of women, so I feel they should have a discerning eye as well.
I find it strange that, despite being Gold-class, so many men approach me. Is it simply because I seem approachable and they think they might have a chance with me?
I understand that it’s impossible to judge what kind of woman I am without actually knowing me. Still, I’d really appreciate your objective opinions.
7 answers
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彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
In that case, being in Lucky Gold, you must be getting tons of offers by now—that’s pretty lucky, isn’t it?
You can be as selective as you want, set your allowance nice and high, and refuse to compromise. If you’re getting lots of offers, you’re at a huge advantage.
In the end, for women, it’s really just a matter of pride. As far as the club is concerned, your class is determined by how high or low your offer fee is. So if you’re getting lots of offers, being in a higher class is actually better.
And if you have good reviews, a good impression at the club, and a beautiful appearance, you may even move up from Gold.
Your looks must be improving more and more through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and you probably have a good personality and great reviews too. I’ve even seen women on profiles who moved up from Standard to Platinum.
You should work hard and make your own legend by moving from Gold to Black.
Don’t let it get you down—that’s when you lose.
Other
I’m not sure what age group you’re in, but even if you’re in your 20s, I think that side of you may be what makes you “gold.”
👨 Male
Universe member
I happened to check in after a while and felt like answering…
If you’re receiving offers regardless of your class, I’d say a lot of people must think you’re pretty attractive and worth meeting.
Isn’t that good enough? Just do your best to keep seeing the people you meet for as long as possible!
Even if new offers stop coming, you’ll still have an ongoing arrangement as long as you’re seeing someone.
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Other
Most of the main points have already been covered, so all I can add is this:
Why not look at it positively and think that your class was set at a level that receives more offers, since people in the Gold class tend to get more offers?
There are also people in the Black class who hardly receive any offers at all.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s a common misconception, but your class isn’t determined by your looks alone. Like 日月新, I also felt that, judging from the chaotic wording of your question, Gold or Standard would be the more appropriate tier.
I think men are more likely to pursue someone based on whether she seems easy to deal with than on her appearance.
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Judging from the content and length of your question, Gold seems appropriate, including in terms of what’s on the inside.
As for me, I’m not skilled enough to change my approach depending on whether she’s Black, Platinum, or Gold. If I want to compliment the woman in front of me, I give it my all—whether she’s Black or Gold.
I don’t think anyone is really that calculating, holding back and thinking, “She’s Gold, so I’ll only say this much.”
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether it’s at a club or in the general dating world, making a woman feel comfortable is both a man’s responsibility and an instinct.
In general, I think most people—both men and women—try to make the other person feel good, regardless of whether they’re attracted to them.
In a society like that, a woman who is attractive, has a good personality, and leaves a positive impression would probably be highly valued and treated with great care.
On the other hand, when it comes to exceptionally beautiful women, some men may hesitate to approach them because they seem intimidating. As a result, they may try to make a move without ever getting to know their personality or even forming an impression of them.
And with beautiful women, since they’re probably used to hearing the usual compliments, men may look for different words because the standard ones no longer have much effect. Sometimes those words come naturally, since unconventional compliments are often appreciated more.