On papa-katsu apps, supporters can see how many messages a PJ has sent and received, as well as how many replies they’ve made, right?
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So even if you really hit it off with a PJ and she says, “I’m not seeing any other papas,” you can still tell when she logs into the app and starts messaging someone new, which is kind of a turnoff. Do you all go into these relationships knowing that’s just how it is?
Papas can log in using secret mode, so they can look for additional arrangements without getting caught. It feels a little unfair, though. (;^_^A)
So this is a question from a man.
Since men are the ones paying, I think it’s only natural that the system favors them.
On dating clubs and PATOLO, you can’t see things like the number of messages sent. Also, once you’ve made an offer, her profile is no longer visible from the papa’s side.
If there are women you’re interested in, try Universe.
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> “We got along really well.”
If you had truly built a close relationship, you probably wouldn’t feel the need to check the app your partner is using, and she likely wouldn’t be messaging other people either.
> “I don’t have a papa, you know.”
That wording itself makes the relationship seem pretty superficial to me. If you were genuinely close, there’d be no need to say, “I don’t have anyone else.” In fact, it comes across as rather insulting.
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It does kill the mood.
But I understand the urge to look. I’m just an ordinary person myself…
This isn’t a relationship where everything is fully understood from the start. Maybe being an adult means learning to hide those uneasy feelings well.
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Just because she’s messaging people doesn’t necessarily mean she has another papa (a male supporter).
If you’re in an actual relationship, she probably wouldn’t still be messaging people through apps.
It’s only natural that someone you meet through an app or a dating club will receive invitations from other people as well. If you want her to focus exclusively on you and quit the app or club, then you simply need to build the kind of relationship where she’ll want to do that.
Once you meet her needs and the relationship becomes stable, many women will stop looking for new connections, which can be risky and a hassle.
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If the questioner suddenly cuts things off, it would leave the PJ in a pretty difficult position, wouldn’t it?
If you maintain a relationship that doesn’t make her feel that kind of anxiety, she won’t need to look for other papas.
I think most PJs date multiple supporters because of that uncertainty.
If you want to have your favorite PJ all to yourself, why not offer her a suitably generous allowance?
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