How do men feel when you negotiate a lower monthly allowance?
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Is it more like, “If it doesn’t work out, so be it. But if she agrees to that amount, continuing with her might be better than looking for someone else”?
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You can’t know someone’s true feelings just by asking here, but I think this is the standard answer.
The reason is that men who negotiate a lower allowance are the ones women tend to rate poorly.
Most respondents are members—or former members—with no bad reviews.
So, honestly, they really can’t understand why a man would try to continue the relationship even after negotiating for a lower allowance.
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They’re probably assuming that negotiating a lower allowance will usually sour the atmosphere, so they’re prepared for the arrangement to end if necessary.
The papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) market favors the buyers—the papas. There may be other women he likes who are willing to accept a lower allowance, so he may be thinking that he’ll continue only if you lower your rate compared with them.
Even if you agree to a reduction this time, more women will continue entering the papa-katsu market, so sooner or later, you may end up in the same situation again. If he’s the type of papa (a male supporter) who gets distracted by other options and thinks in terms of negotiating allowances down, the arrangement may not last long.
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As Fuu said, it sounds like you’re saying goodbye. Well, even if he agrees, you’re planning to end things with him eventually anyway.
You should probably be embarrassed that he asked you to lower your allowance. But honestly, you might as well dump such a cheap man. Sometimes getting rid of a bad connection opens the door to a better one.
Update your profile and look forward to what comes next.
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My guess is that the most likely explanation is that he’s found another good woman and is suggesting a lower allowance because he’s prepared for the relationship to end. So your assumption is probably right.
That said, if you’re the only person he’s seeing, his business may not be doing well and he may be running out of money.
Even if you agreed to continue at that amount, I’m afraid you should be prepared for the possibility that the relationship may still come to an end.
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