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Mar 16, 2024 20:28
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How do you politely turn someone down when you’ve met, exchanged contact information, and then feel like you’re not really a good match—or when you meet a second time and realize it’s not going to work?
Also, if you don’t feel you’re a good match but the man asks to exchange contact information, how do you respond?
2 answers
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
I may not have received enough offers for this to be very helpful as a reference.
That said, I remember that when I exchanged Line contacts with the person who offered me a letter date last time, he bombarded me with questions:
“I use my real name!
Why don’t you use your real name?
What is your real name?!”
I didn’t know how to respond.
But—
he left pretty quickly.
The end.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a man, but I’ll answer since this is something anyone can understand, regardless of gender.
In a club, just as in ordinary dating, people rarely turn someone down explicitly. Most people, regardless of gender, tend to be evasive when they want to decline.