Tips Mar 13, 2024 11:04

I think I’m starting to fall for the papa I’m seeing. But he has a wife, and they seem to have a good relationship, so I can’t fully let myself fall for him either. Sometimes I get the feeling that he likes me too, but I also think he’s drawing a line somewhere.

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I’ve dropped a few hints about how I feel, but I can’t tell whether he’s just too oblivious to notice or deliberately brushing them off. Either way, things haven’t really progressed. We’ve been seeing each other for a long time, but we don’t meet very often because of his schedule, so we haven’t grown that close. He’s always kind and a good person, but he still feels very mysterious to me. I know this relationship won’t last forever, but I’d like to get to know him better. Do you think I should honestly tell him how I feel? If I do, do you think it will ruin our relationship?
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
The Osaka Grand Sumo Tournament is on right now, so you should watch it. Everyone’s throwing their whole bodies into it, winning and losing. There are things you won’t understand unless you step into the ring yourself, so stop overthinking it and get in there. Once you collide, your feelings might suddenly cool off because of the ick—but you won’t know until you give it a try. You take one mysterious step closer, then suddenly get completely turned off. Happens all the time.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
The people answering can’t possibly know what a complete stranger would do either. Since it’s your life, I think you should take the time to think it through carefully and decide for yourself what to do.
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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
You should tell him how you feel right now! People’s feelings can change, so I think it’s best to say what’s on your mind while you’re feeling it. From the way you wrote your question, your papa (a male supporter) doesn’t seem like the type who would end the relationship over that. But ultimately, it depends on the relationship between you and your papa (a male supporter). Personally, I keep telling mine, “I love you so much♡,” and I’m always expressing my gratitude.
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