My body count is in the triple digits. Until now, I’d only been with men around my age, but over the past few years I’ve also been with several dozen men in their 60s—my father’s generation.

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I’ve noticed some obvious differences from men my age. First, they tend to take a long time to finish, which is exhausting. Second, men my age always want to satisfy the woman—they’ll make sure she finishes first, or say they can’t finish until she does, putting her feelings first. But with men in their 60s, making the woman finish doesn’t even seem to occur to them. They seem focused only on finishing themselves. (And since they take so long, the one-sided experience just goes on forever.) Do you think sex differs depending on the generation? Men in their 60s grew up in the old-school Showa era, unlike people in their 20s to 40s today. Wasn’t it more of a male-dominated, “men first” culture rather than one that emphasized treating women well? Could that be why they don’t think about making sure the woman enjoys herself or feels satisfied first?

Answer 1

In the broadest sense, the Showa era is causing you trouble. I can picture what you mean by being self-centered, but I have to admit, delayed ejaculation caught me by surprise. Why? Because, not to brag, I’m an extremely premature ejaculator. The other day, Sawako (an F-cup) even complimented me by saying, “You react faster than my 20-year-old friends-with-benefits partner” (sobbing). I admit that our generation grew up in a male-dominated culture, but isn’t that precisely why, even if we’re self-centered, we go out of our way to bring our partners to climax? Finally, I’d like to share a magic phrase for the person struggling with delayed ejaculation: “Please make your intense ◯◯ throb inside my ◯◯◯!” Sorry for all the circles.

Answer 2

I think the whole idea of “ladies first” is very much a Showa-era way of thinking and goes against gender equality and being gender-free. If the men in their 60s that the questioner dealt with were people they met through a dating club, then perhaps they simply happened to meet men who use dating clubs as a kind of amateur-style sex service. Isn’t it less a generation gap and more a difference in how they met? Also, the idea that you absolutely have to satisfy the woman, and that you can’t get there yourself until she does, sounds pretty old-man-ish to me. I say that because I’m exactly the same way. So once again, I think it’s not really a generation gap. The way they met probably influenced the men’s attitudes and behavior.

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