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Feb 21, 2024 22:30
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They’re Gold- or Platinum-level women.
The profiles on the club’s site are nothing but lies. They can’t be trusted. They should thoroughly investigate their backgrounds not only at the interview stage, but roughly every month.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
People like the questioner are honestly a nuisance, and I wish they’d leave the club.
The reason clubs won’t tell you things like whether someone has experience in nightlife work is because they have male members who complain about everything.
I believe a lot of the information clubs provide is extremely valuable for avoiding mismatches.
For example, I’ve met someone whose profile said she had no experience in nightlife work, only to find out when we met that she actually did.
But that’s just how it is—it can’t be helped.
I wouldn’t want to be the kind of narrow-minded person who gets angry at the club over something like that.
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
What’s wrong with telling a pack of lies? lol
A profile is there to highlight your strengths, rephrase your weaknesses in more flattering terms, and make the other person think, “I like this!”
By figuring out how to present yourself differently depending on the person and the purpose, both you and the other person can be happy.
What’s wrong with that?
The world is overflowing with lies, and that’s what makes life fun and exciting.
One of the best-selling books in recent years, *Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind*, was incredibly interesting.
To sum it up in one sentence: humanity has progressed through our ability to tell lies and believe them.
“The world is overflowing with fiction.”
That’s a pretty accurate description of the world today.
On the other hand, if you seek the truth too much, life becomes unhappy.
I think papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is the same.
It’s me.
システムエンジニアの会員
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Other
If you’re someone who gets plenty of offers through Gold or Platinum, wouldn’t you have no motivation to do street solicitation? I can’t speak for people who receive hardly any offers, though.
The club I belong to is in a regional area where street solicitation doesn’t really exist, so I apologize if I’m missing the mark.
Meg
Female
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🏅 修行の身
光と影
Age: 50s
👩 Female
Former Universe member
What is this person’s problem? So creepy!!!
Even if you found out who they really are, it wouldn’t benefit your life in the slightest…
I recently re-registered, by the way. Honestly, I kind of wish you’d looked at my profile as it really was. (Sorry, I’m on hiatus again now♡)
🏅 ラッキーゴールドの探査技師
関西在住で多趣味です。
最近、筋トレにて、体重は減っていないのに、ウエストは減りまくりで、筋肉の増量と体脂肪の減量との両立を実現しております。
スタンダードクラス、ゴールドクラスで磨くと光りそうな方にオファーすることが多いです。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s a short question, so I may be misunderstanding the point.
Certainly, there seem to be a fair number of women classified as Dating Type B1 or higher who are prepared for an adult relationship and need money for one reason or another, including those who independently provide sexual services as street workers.
I’ve also met someone in person and wondered about the “no fūzoku experience” listed on her profile. However, I don’t personally go to seedy places where street workers gather. Even if I did, I wouldn’t examine women’s faces closely enough to identify them, compare them on the spot with the club’s photos, or memorize their profile pictures well enough to recognize them later.
So I can’t speak to the questioner’s perspective, but if they “occasionally come across” someone and find that it conflicts with the club profile’s claim of “no fūzoku experience,” I think it’s only natural for them to distrust the information on the profile.
That said, I evaluate the value of clubs by comparing them with dating apps.
On apps, there’s no information at all about someone’s attitude toward dating or the impressions of third parties who have met her. I believe the value lies in having that information.
Again, a club name is technically an alias since it differs from one’s real name. And both self-reported app profiles and club profiles probably contain some degree of falsehood.
However, club profiles have certain sections—such as third-party interview evaluations—that are less likely to contain lies, and that has value. I don’t expect everything to be completely true.
As part of your own activity as a questioner, it would be good if you could accurately point out any false information on the profile to the club.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never had it turn out to be someone I knew from the club, and I’ve never even seen anyone like that myself.
The odds must be incredibly low… It sounds like you had a truly miraculous encounter…
Really??
Also, I don’t think there’s any need to look at the faces of women soliciting on the street in the first place…
Other
Whatever, but please write “tachinbo” using kanji. At a glance, all I saw was “chinbo,” so I had no idea what it meant.
Profiles at dating clubs being full of lies is just how it works, isn’t it? Same goes for the photos. Universe is the odd one out, since the rate of dishonesty is comparatively low there. Even so, when you actually meet them and hear their story, things are often quite different—but I don’t point it out every single time. You should trust your intuition and your animal instincts. Complaining that the story doesn’t match is the height of cluelessness and completely lacking in tact. You really don’t get it.
If a woman you’ve been interested in is working the streets, why not make her an offer right there? That’s lucky, if anything. Actually, combining the street-worker game with dating clubs carries a risk of bringing home an infection, so I’d prefer people stick to street “chinbo” only.
That said, if the woman I made an offer to turned out to have a penis, I do think it would be fair to file a complaint.
That’s all from the scene.
Taro
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
How amazing is your memory? How many faces can you actually remember? That’s impressive.
The way you’re asking the club to handle this just isn’t possible.
So, with that memory of yours, just remember the faces of every street worker and make offers to the other women at the club. Then you’ll be fine.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
A dating club is not a private investigation agency. Also, please direct your requests to the branch office.
Personally, I wouldn’t have a problem if a woman had worked the streets, as long as she didn’t have any illnesses, wasn’t unpleasantly smelly or loose down there, and was willing to date me. You’d think you could tell from the smell down there if a woman was having sex that frequently. In fact, I’ve correctly guessed several times that someone I was seeing had had sex the day before or two days earlier.
If you ask the club to investigate its female members, the setup fee would probably be several million yen or more just to recover the costs, and I imagine the number of women who could register would be extremely limited.
You’d be better off gathering men who share your views and starting your own dating club.